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Date Posted: 2024-11-03 06:51:42
Author: Anita
Subject: Re: Do you support your children in all their decisions?
In reply to: Lucas 's message, "Re: Do you support your children in all their decisions?" on 2024-11-03 06:31:30

>I think you can be a strict parent and still raise
>your children barefoot

Do you mean that includes making rules that children must be barefoot in certain circumstances, leaving them no choice?
Or would the parents leave it to the children to go barefoot as they like but be strict in other aspects (curfew, chores, where they can go and who they can meet)?

We have made it a house rule that the house is a barefoot zone. But that wasn't a rule set and enforced by parents, rather it's what everybody already agreed on, so we wouldn't need a rule at all. Except the kids were proud and happy to make a "barefoot zone" sign and put it up at the entrance door. (Another family we know has such a rule but it applies to children only.)

Outside it's up for everybody to decide but all children have a clear preference for bare feet and I like that. The rule is "don't drag dirt inside" which means washing feet if you don't have shoes to take off. While the kids sometimes seem proud of their black barefooter city soles when out and about, they understand that rule and quickly wash off as they come home.

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