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] Date Posted: 06:42:19 05/24/25 Sat I have been reading this forum for a few months now and have decided to join in the conversation. I have two daughters ages 10 and 12 and a boy 14. All three are still spanked on their bare bottom over my knee with hand and paddle. They have been out of school for about a week now and all three have felt the paddle already. I realize that during the summer months kids are spanked more often than if they were in school. I would have to say that it still holds true for all three of my kids especially my son. He is at the age where he just pushes the boundaries until he ends up over my knee. Do you other moms see where spankings are increased during the summer? At what do you notice they start pushing the boundaries at your house. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: Trish to Cathy. [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 09:08:16 05/24/25 Sat Hello Hun and welcome to this forum. I hope you have a pleasant experience and feel welcomed by all and mote importantly get to speak to other parents or guardians and even Pro spanking believers. I am a mommy to a recently turned thirteen year old daughter who looks about ten or eleven and is still very much prebuesent and I have been in the process of adopting three siblings and their cousin and they live with us. My sister and her husband also live here and are amazing help to me raising them. We spank them nude and often in different positions and use our hands strap and paddle and sometimes a hairbrush or belt. Our children are not finished school until June although they are off school next week. We definitely noticed that school holidays and weekends are when they are more likely to get into trouble and get spanked. Nice to meet you again sweetheart. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lindsay to Cathy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 10:48:30 05/24/25 Sat Hi there Kathy sweetheart, Welcome to the forum. As you can see we have about 16 kids here, maybe more doing maintenance sessions and everyone is really happy with them. This way they get the important cuddling in bonding time, get whatever spanking needs to be done out of the way, and wind up with a much better family atmosphere. You can read about the spankings and maintenance sessions in any one of the threads here that mention it in their title. It's actually a fairly simple process and would be ideal for the summer spankings, saving you a lot of time and effort. What you do is first sit down and meet with all the kids and explain that you're going to do something that has been wildly successful with other families. They will all be spanked and cuddled once or twice a week fairly mildly and they won't have to be spent otherwise. You need to settle on one or two days during the week and have everyone agree on those days. Then those days need to be followed like clockwork. Many here started out with Wednesday evening and Saturday morning. What happens is when the appointed day and time arrives, your kids will go to their room and take off all their clothes including shoes and fold them neatly on the bed or in the hamper or wherever. They then come to the lounge and sit on the sofa in the order that they will be spanked. He will then have them come one at a time and stand in front of whoever is going to be spanking them and they will tell you all about their behavior since the last session. This will of course include very good things like sports are good grades or whatever along with areas that need attention. When this is done they go over your lap and I have always recommended 20 strokes with the hand but as you can read, other parents have evolved that into many times that which I never recommended. Then after that, let them up to dance if they want to and then back over your lap for between 1 and 10 strokes with preferably a lexan paddle and here you give them strokes for whatever misbehavior they may have done since the last session. Obviously the worst misbehavior and the more strokes. In other threads you'll read about hundreds of strokes and this is of course up to you but I don't recommend that at all. Above all please remember this is not meant to be a punishment session. Once you finish with the paddle and they have danced that off, then it's time for cuddling in comforting, in other words the good part. Kids really look forward to this. What you do is rub all parts of their body and speak to them in a soothing voice and they just love this. This goes on for about 20 minutes but has lasted as long as an hour and a half. Since you have four, you might want to keep it on the short side and then offer additional cuddling to anyone who needs it. Then once you feel like you cuddled and caressed enough, you give the kid a big hug and a kiss and they can go back to their place on the couch and then the next one comes to you. Rents and repeat. This process has worked absolutely wondrous in families and there are any number of parents who I know will be more than willing to talk to you about it. I will also be here although I live in Hawaii so I'm a little harder to get a hold of. But I'm more than willing to set you up and get you going. Like I said, simple process and I would be happy to get you started. Good luck to you and happy planning, Lindsay [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Cathy to Lindsay [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 11:28:58 05/24/25 Sat Lindsay, I appreciate your offer, but I am one that does not believe in Maintenance spankings. I cannot see spanking a child for no reason. I spank when they disobey, and I try to do it on the spot. I have no problem taking them to a family or public restroom and spanking their bare bottoms. Last Saturday I took my teenage son to the family restroom and hand spanked his bare bottom for his attitude and he got another spanking with the paddle at home. All three kids average around 3 to 4 spankings a month. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lindsay to Kathy [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 11:45:54 05/24/25 Sat Hi there Kathy, Please excuse the spelling. I use a dictator and that's just the way it comes out. I was going to say that the beauty of maintenance is that you don't have to look on it as a spanking. That really just acts as a warm up for the wonderful bonding and cuddling that follows. Like I said it is not a punishment I would definitely not. What you described it sounds like it might be ideal for you and the kids. And one big pity of it is that you no longer have to go find a family bathroom or something to spank. I know it's hard to believe but with maintenance that pretty much disappears, you can check with any of the parents involved. You need to get the idea of maintenance is being warrantless spanks out of your head. Please don't look on it as a spanking. I would suggest you try it for at least a couple of weeks this summer and I think you'll be amazed at the results. Very best, Lindsay [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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