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] Date Posted: 04:52:40 06/01/25 Sun I married my husband last weekend. My two daughters 14 and 11 and I are moved in yesterday with him. I always spanked bare bottom just pulling down pants and panties. A few hits to shock the person. My new husband talked to me that he wants to take over discipline. I agreed. Yesterday before bed he informed my daughters they’d be receiving maintenance spankings once a week and punishment as needed. Both looked very nervous going up to their rooms especially since he said first maintenance would be this morning. He says typically it will be Wednesday night but he wants them to have a dose sooner. After the girls went to bed he told me his church which we joined has spanking sessions with the pastor but he is away this weekend so my husband will do it. We have not explained this to the girls yet. Also my husband has a son who is 13 . He goes to his moms on weekends but he will be spanked on Wednesday's as well. My daughters are modest when it comes to their bodies so this will be an adjustment. My husband stated the girls will be totally nude and hit with a paddle. I’m unsure how things will go but the girls attitudes are rough lately. So I’m optimistic. This coming Wednesday he has a plan to spank all three but I’m unsure how he will carry it out. My daughters will not like a man seeing them much less a boy their age. His son is very well behaved and a good kid so his discipline works. I’ve never seen my new husband spank before. But will shortly. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: Amy to carol. [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 09:01:14 06/01/25 Sun My husband and I started given our kids maintenance spankings and yes nude. Your daughters will have to learn to be obedient and the embarrassment will be good for them as part of discipline.. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lindsay to Carol [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 10:09:16 06/01/25 Sun Hi Carol sweetheart! How did it go this morning? I have started 18 young people on maintenance spankings here in this forum. You can read about those throughout the forum. They are mostly from the UK, but that's just coincidental. There were quite a few from parents that were just fed up with their kids and maintenance has been a godsend to them and now their kids have turned around completely. It sounds like your husband does a good job given the good behavior of his son. He needs to know that normally there should be no outside punishment besides the maintenance. Maintenance is not about punishing, it's about respect have a good behavior and bonding with the parent. There should always be plenty of time after this banking for the parent to hold the child, speak softly to them and comfort them while stroking their body. He's exactly right it should be done naked. I think having a 13 year old boy who is probably just past puberty and gets erections will be a good thing for your girls to see what a boy looks like and even to see what erections look like. So much better in the home than randomly out in public. It's important for you to participate too since you have three children now. While one does the spanking, the other can also spank and you can share with the third. Then after spanking you both can cuddle all three of them. The cuddling should last at least 20 to 30 minutes. Also there should be discussion of behavior which I'm sure he does before the paddling or spanking. It's important to have a good long discussion about the behavior since the last session. And be sure and include the good things that they have done the importantly. How they have helped people, how they have helped around the house, good grades and etc. That's an important part of maintenance. Then after you're finished with cuddling, it's time to give each of them a big hug and kiss and send them off too put on their clothes and continue on with their day. Can you tell us a little about what your girls look like? Is there hair blonde or brunette and shoulder length? I'm sure the 11-year-old is flat chested and has no hair on her vulva. But the 14-year-old is probably old enough to have even tennis ball size breasts in at least some hair on her vulva. That is generally more embarrassing but she will get used to it. When you say husband takes over the spankings at church is that for children that don't have someone spanking them? Does the church have a spanking room? Are they naked while they receive any strokes that they have earned? Good luck to you with the new regimen. Maintenance banking is a wonderful thing and should work well for your girls. Very best to you, Lindsay [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Sarah [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 18:09:13 06/01/25 Sun I am 11 and have a new stepdad I have bottom two spankings from him we really bonded it is embarrassing to get spanked in front of my new brothers told me my new daddy gives longer harder hand spankingd and I found out from my brothers Wednesday night they receive weekly spankings they call it . My daddy passed away years ago and I bonded after my first spanking from my new daddy he cuddled me after both spankings that was imposed to me and it was embarrassing to be in front of brothers being a only child I am adjusting they will probably adjust [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lot [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 19:03:45 06/02/25 Mon Stepfathers must have their role in raising and disciplining their stepdaughters. It is very reasonable for a girl to be without panties, over her stepdad's lap, feeling his strong hand on her ass, at least once a week. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Jessica to Sarah [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 19:11:35 06/02/25 Mon Hi Sarah sweetheart, I'm glad you receiving good discipline. H As lot says, it's important to feel a strong hand on your bottom from time to time. I'm glad that you get it naked. I assume that you were the same Sarah with long blonde hair and a flat chest and smooth hairless vulva. Does he make you stand in front of him and tell him what you did beforehand? Do you have to do anything afterwards? Does he make you remain naked like the rest of the day? Are you an athletic girl or kind of pudgy? I think you're in Texas if I remember right. It's nice to have some Americans on board here LOL. Love you, Jessica [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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