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Subject: Re: Adjustment for my daughters

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Lindsay to Carol

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Date Posted: 10:09:16 06/01/25 Sun
In reply to: Carol 's message, "Adjustment for my daughters" on 04:52:40 06/01/25 Sun

Hi Carol sweetheart!

How did it go this morning?

I have started 18 young people on maintenance spankings here in this forum. You can read about those throughout the forum. They are mostly from the UK, but that's just coincidental. There were quite a few from parents that were just fed up with their kids and maintenance has been a godsend to them and now their kids have turned around completely.

It sounds like your husband does a good job given the good behavior of his son. He needs to know that normally there should be no outside punishment besides the maintenance. Maintenance is not about punishing, it's about respect have a good behavior and bonding with the parent. There should always be plenty of time after this banking for the parent to hold the child, speak softly to them and comfort them while stroking their body.

He's exactly right it should be done naked. I think having a 13 year old boy who is probably just past puberty and gets erections will be a good thing for your girls to see what a boy looks like and even to see what erections look like. So much better in the home than randomly out in public.

It's important for you to participate too since you have three children now. While one does the spanking, the other can also spank and you can share with the third. Then after spanking you both can cuddle all three of them. The cuddling should last at least 20 to 30 minutes.

Also there should be discussion of behavior which I'm sure he does before the paddling or spanking. It's important to have a good long discussion about the behavior since the last session. And be sure and include the good things that they have done the importantly. How they have helped people, how they have helped around the house, good grades and etc. That's an important part of maintenance.

Then after you're finished with cuddling, it's time to give each of them a big hug and kiss and send them off too put on their clothes and continue on with their day.

Can you tell us a little about what your girls look like? Is there hair blonde or brunette and shoulder length? I'm sure the 11-year-old is flat chested and has no hair on her vulva. But the 14-year-old is probably old enough to have even tennis ball size breasts in at least some hair on her vulva. That is generally more embarrassing but she will get used to it.

When you say husband takes over the spankings at church is that for children that don't have someone spanking them? Does the church have a spanking room? Are they naked while they receive any strokes that they have earned?

Good luck to you with the new regimen. Maintenance banking is a wonderful thing and should work well for your girls. Very best to you, Lindsay

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Sarah
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Date Posted: 18:09:13 06/01/25 Sun

I am 11 and have a new stepdad I have bottom two spankings from him we really bonded it is embarrassing to get spanked in front of my new brothers told me my new daddy gives longer harder hand spankingd and I found out from my brothers Wednesday night they receive weekly spankings they call it . My daddy passed away years ago and I bonded after my first spanking from my new daddy he cuddled me after both spankings that was imposed to me and it was embarrassing to be in front of brothers being a only child I am adjusting they will probably adjust

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