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Subject: Re: Scared of spanking


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Dana
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Date Posted: 20:58:51 09/20/24 Fri
In reply to: Laura 's message, "Scared of spanking" on 00:12:21 09/18/24 Wed

Imposed discipline can be very beneficial, sometimes making the difference between reaching your goals and feeling good about yourself, or leading a self-destructive life that makes you unhappy, unproductive, lacking in confidence, and with little hope for the bright future you should have.

However, there is a balance that must be found where you are not being forced too hard, humiliated too much, living under too much stress and developing an anxiety disorder or other psychological problems that we, as laypeople, do not understand.

As long as you feel your mother's discipline is healthy for you, then just continue doing your best to meet her expectations. Yes, it is tough, but some people actually pay professional disciplinarians for the help she is giving you. If you are truly struggling to cope, then you should tell your mother about it. Worst case scenario, try to find another adult with authority who will listen.

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