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Subject: "Augmented"parenting

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Date Posted: 13:04:16 12/06/24 Fri

I greet the community and hope no one in this board will take umbrage at my post

I'm a French male Babyboomer and I would like to know if they are, among the "active" spanking parents here around some who admit (*) to have a very special interest in punishing their children, at the same time responsible parents who do not want to do anything harmful or dangerous. They have to be, of course, open-minded, not like these ones who will flame you as soon as you dare to say (just an example) that spanking the back of the thighs is... possible !

(*) That's this ever discussed problem of the sexual gratification of the adult. Some people swear it is for them only a duty (when not an unpleasant duty!). Why not ? But, IMHO, speaking as a man, a "colleague" who is not rock-hard when spanking OTK a naked, wriggling, crying/sobbing girl of 7 or 8 has a serious health problem.

I was very lucky I grew up in the 50s-60s, a Golden Age for corporal punishment (CP) of children in Europe. Even a greater chance, I met (age 7) a teacher who was not only a no-nonsense person (CP is for children that age the most effective way to achieve good immediate results) but also a passionate punisher. 60 years later, I can still remember each word of his "delicious" commentaries (before, during and after each event). I've learned a lot from him. Later I've, of course, used his methods on my children (with many variants) but I've also experimented, of my own, with the active help and complicity of my dear wife (we were on the same line) many different ways to punish children with always in mind not to harm them. That's one of the differences between CP and brute violence.

I was never in "maintenance" spankings and I've never punished for nothing. There was always a "good" reason (it is quite easy, anyway, to find "good" reasons to punish a child).

My experience was and my competence is limited to preteens. Children are "born - designed - to be beaten and a teacher has the right to punish the way he prefers. It's not up to the child to choose his punishment" (that is what I used to say to my siblings in this memorable 2nd class. I think now proudly : a quite unusual discernment for such a young child !). Children, de facto, are subs from their very nature in front of adults. They are also incredibly, stunningly beautiful while being punished. No trace with children of any resentment, rancour or desire of vengeance. That all is not the case when speaking about teenagers or adults. I cannot help in such a case.

But,if you've got children I can help you to find new "refreshing" ways to punish. Even in "developed"(?) countries (most of them are now, for reasons I cannot develop, in a suicidal anti-adults position), it is possible to make a lot without leaving any marks. In the last decade I've worked so (a bit like a punishment-coach) with several nice people within the Darkweb. It was for me (of course, sadly, that's life, there are around me no children any more) each time a big real pleasure when parents tried something I had suggested and told me afterwards about the results (feedback). I also sometimes learned from them. I miss these interactions (only the kids were not happy, but that's the deal ;-)

Interested parents, feel free to mail me on Sonar in order to exchange on topic freely, without any restraint and without disturbing anyone.
Of course it is within Tor and you have even no obligation to create an account with this link (you'll get in touch with me as a guest)

http://sonarmsng5vzwqezlvtu2iiwwdn3dxkhotftikhowpfjuzg7p3ca5eid.onion/?a=compose&to=PunisherFred

but it is better to create an account with http://sonarmsng5vzwqezlvtu2iiwwdn3dxkhotftikhowpfjuzg7p3ca5eid.onion/
and then to mail me to PunisherFred

have a good time,
regards,

Fred

PS : sorry for the quite stupid nick in Sonar (PunisherFred) but there are too many Fred

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Re: "Augmented"parenting Allie 17:00:09 12/06/24 Fri

Re: "Augmented"parenting Fred 05:51:38 12/09/24 Mon

Re: "Augmented"parenting -- Allie, 05:53:14 12/09/24 Mon

Re: "Augmented"parenting -- Allie, 06:03:27 12/09/24 Mon

Re: "Augmented"parenting -- Anonimous, 13:41:02 01/29/25 Wed
Re: "Augmented"parenting -- SpankingCoach, 21:54:01 02/19/25 Wed

"Augmented" parenting Fred to every parent 04:14:43 04/15/25 Tue

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>I greet the community and hope no one in this board >will take umbrage at my post > >I'm a French male Babyboomer and I would like to know >if they are, among the "active" spanking parents here >around some who admit (*) to have a very special >interest in punishing their children, at the same time >responsible parents who do not want to do anything >harmful or dangerous. They have to be, of course, >open-minded, not like these ones who will flame you as >soon as you dare to say (just an example) that >spanking the back of the thighs is... possible ! > >(*) That's this ever discussed problem of the sexual >gratification of the adult. Some people swear it is >for them only a duty (when not an unpleasant duty!). >Why not ? But, IMHO, speaking as a man, a "colleague" >who is not rock-hard when spanking OTK a naked, >wriggling, crying/sobbing girl of 7 or 8 has a serious >health problem. > >I was very lucky I grew up in the 50s-60s, a Golden >Age for corporal punishment (CP) of children in >Europe. Even a greater chance, I met (age 7) a teacher >who was not only a no-nonsense person (CP is for >children that age the most effective way to achieve >good immediate results) but also a passionate >punisher. 60 years later, I can still remember each >word of his "delicious" commentaries (before, during >and after each event). I've learned a lot from him. >Later I've, of course, used his methods on my children >(with many variants) but I've also experimented, of my >own, with the active help and complicity of my dear >wife (we were on the same line) many different ways to >punish children with always in mind not to harm them. >That's one of the differences between CP and brute >violence. > >I was never in "maintenance" spankings and I've never >punished for nothing. There was always a "good" reason >(it is quite easy, anyway, to find "good" reasons to >punish a child). > >My experience was and my competence is limited to >preteens. Children are "born - designed - to be beaten >and a teacher has the right to punish the way he >prefers. It's not up to the child to choose his >punishment" (that is what I used to say to my siblings >in this memorable 2nd class. I think now proudly : a >quite unusual discernment for such a young child !). >Children, de facto, are subs from their very nature in >front of adults. They are also incredibly, stunningly >beautiful while being punished. No trace with children >of any resentment, rancour or desire of vengeance. >That all is not the case when speaking about teenagers >or adults. I cannot help in such a case. > >But,if you've got children I can help you to find new >"refreshing" ways to punish. Even in "developed"(?) >countries (most of them are now, for reasons I cannot >develop, in a suicidal anti-adults position), it is >possible to make a lot without leaving any marks. In >the last decade I've worked so (a bit like a >punishment-coach) with several nice people within the >Darkweb. It was for me (of course, sadly, that's life, >there are around me no children any more) each time a >big real pleasure when parents tried something I had >suggested and told me afterwards about the results >(feedback). I also sometimes learned from them. I miss >these interactions (only the kids were not happy, but >that's the deal ;-) > >Interested parents, feel free to mail me on Sonar in >order to exchange on topic freely, without any >restraint and without disturbing anyone. >Of course it is within Tor and you have even no >obligation to create an account with this link >(you'll get in touch with me as a guest) > >http://sonarmsng5vzwqezlvtu2iiwwdn3dxkhotftikhowpfjuzg7 >p3ca5eid.onion/?a=compose&to=PunisherFred > >but it is better to create an account with >http://sonarmsng5vzwqezlvtu2iiwwdn3dxkhotftikhowpfjuzg7 >p3ca5eid.onion/ > and then to mail me to PunisherFred > >have a good time, >regards, > > Fred > >PS : sorry for the quite stupid nick in Sonar >(PunisherFred) but there are too many Fred

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