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>Sam, >that touched upon so many important topics we don't >often think about. Victoria clearly goes into >auto-pilot with her mom (as do we with our kids) and >needs some guidance. However I believe during the >course of punishment that the parent should have >control of their child's modesty, not the child. That >means removal and lowering of their clothes and >undies, and in the case of girls, undoing their top >and/or bra if one prefers. If there's a neck string, >undo that first so it falls free and forward. Some say >it should come off first but I think it should be >after the lecture. The wait enhances her nervousness >and brings more tears and eyes when it finally >happens. IMHO a spanking should be a memorable and not >everyday matter, and that rare humiliation is an >important step to a contrite daughter. This is why a >spanking should be a family and not a private event. >Victoria, one of the most important stages I'm glad >Sam went into detail over is your shameful state of >undress. Even though it was a required part of your >punishment, you need to let your step dad know that >you truly understand showing him and anyone else your >breasts and nipples is sinful and wrong. You really >should seek forgiveness for disrespecting him. If I >ever saw my daughter topless outside of a punishment >session I would give her ice cream cups a good >spanking on the spot. > >Justin > > >>I don't stop by often, but Veronica, if you happen to >>come back too, take to heart what I have to say below. >>You can still call me Sam. >> >>Now let's get down to your spanking situation. I >>understand your step dad's role is slightly different >>than your mum's, but you asked, she approved, and >>there will be more. Like Mitch said, you won't learn >>your lesson until you accept what you can't control >>instead of letting your emotions run wild. You need to >>put yourself in the frame of mind as if your mum was >>spanking you, but need need to make some concessions >>for your step dad's authority and beliefs. Consider >>doing this next time so that the lesson fully sinks in >>and you both finish on good terms: >>First, take a minute to disclose your transgressions. >>All of them. Try to stay calm. Next, admit that you're >>ashamed for those transgressions and having to bare >>your breasts before him. But you know why it is >>necessary, and you are ready to accept the >>consequences for all misdeeds. Next, face your stepdad >>and remove your shirt and bra, and ask where to place >>them. Apologize for revealing your breasts and having >>him see you in a shameful state. Remember, that's all >>he's seeing, and a little humility goes a long way. >>When in position, take your spanking as if your mum >>was doing your bottom. Keep your eyes closed and be >>brave, not angry. You said he swats each at a >>time...so remember to pay attention not just to the >>spank but each bounce afterwards. >>Afterwards ask for some time to cry. Your stepdad >>sounds like an understanding man. After a few minutes >>you'll instinctively wish to cover, but resist. Now is >>not the time for modesty. Appear genuinely penitent. >>Although you're tender, give him a hug and let the >>tears flow. Repeat your transgressions, specifically >>what you won't do again, and if it happens again, and >>the consequences. Now stand before your stepdad, look >>him in the eye, and tell him that you were a bad girl >>to expose your bare breasts at your age - even though >>it was for them to be punished - and are very >>embarrassed. Then again, apologize for doing so, and >>ask for forgiveness. >>Now is a good time to have *your stepdad* restore your >>modesty. Finish by giving him a hug and thank him for >>spanking you. It's something you needed and you >>appreciate the time and effort he took to discipline >>you. This should help you accept your stepdad and >>develop the missing bond. Take care and keep behaving! >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> >> Mr. S I just noticed you replied pardon me. >>I'm sure you daughter understands me too since I see >>you spank her the same way she probably likes you like >>I do my stepdad. >>Yes ok they were I guess it was more effective up top >>because it hurt faster and more concentrated. Sure >>they would've spent more time if on my bottom tho >>since apparently mum has all dayyy. So I never thought >>of it before you said it (since it's a taboo topic) >>but yeah we can't control our boobs moving :( today i >>looked at myself walking towards a mirror braless and >>they move like twice as much every step and I can >>totally see them. Like no wonder they talk about ppl >>looking. But if people like my stepdad weren't so mean >>about boobs like i told other people here I would >>prefer without a bra "like god intended", phrase my >>mum says often. >> >>B cups was an accident I was getting sleepy. They are >>A which I told Betty. >>Sigh...so at school a girl who is jealous of me told >>them I was bribing a boy she likes for exam answers so >>then I got snooty with them when they cornered me. Idk >>why they belive her its not like shes all that or >>whatever.. >>I guess this was about the same as my average bottom >>spankings and mum finishes really hard.

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