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Subject: Re: SCHOOL NOTE--HOME SPANKINGS FOLLOW

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Nancy to Jason
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Date Posted: 18:18:32 04/06/25 Sun
In reply to: Jason 's message, "Re: SCHOOL NOTE--HOME SPANKINGS FOLLOW" on 17:51:25 04/04/25 Fri

Hi, Jason, thank you for your thoughtful note.

I fully agree with you that the erections Ted has when I bare him for spankings are not a sign that he likes or is looking forward to the punishment he is about to get. I have read that this is very common with tween and teen boys and that it is a reaction to the nervous anticipation, the unavoidable but nonsexual excitement that boys feel when they have to bare themselves and when they know that a spanking is to follow. Ted had a huge erection when he was bared at the school in front of his female principal, teacher, witness and me, and that certainly had nothing to do with sexual arousal--and everything to do with the circumstances (baring himself in front of us) and the knowledge that he was about to suffer very real pain in front of everyone.

I should mention that looking at the group present it was impossible not to see that all of them, the principal the rest, were feeling the same excitement and rush of emotions seeing Ted like that just as I was at that time. I feel confident that, despite any denials anyone might make if asked, seeing a 13 year old boy bare and erected like that for punishment would have excited any normal female watcher, and I actually believe, any normal male watcher as well.

These reactions by Ted are repeated now, as I have said, when I bare him and spank him at home and I do feel a definite rush of emotion and pleasurable excitement as I undress him, as I put him over my lap in that erected state, and as I give him the hard spanking he needs--but none of those feelings on my part are involved in any way with any sexual desires aimed at my son.

I think this is something that any thoughtful person can understand, but certainly any parent who spanks realizes even if they have not thought the matter through very carefully. The obviously pleasurable aspects of those feelings, for me or for any thoughtful spanking parent, are related very directly to the feelings at the time that my son is about to get a sound spanking, that I have seen very clearly that his spankings now are very directly connected to his improved behavior and to his much more respectful and loving attitude toward me, to the fact that he now thinks of me not as a wishy washy pushover of a parent but as his strict but loving mother, and I know very well that the hard crying he is about to do will definitely benefit him in ways that are needed as he grows and matures right now in these years.

The fact that he later comes down from the agonizing "high" of his painful spanking and that pain is followed by feelings of great relief, of release of all the pent-up feelings that preceded the spanking, and that he then feels a great wash of definite pleasure that his punishment is over and of great pride that he took his punishment so well--I am not surprised at all that this, in turn, does lead to feelings of intense sexual arousal for which he finds relief in masturbation. All perfectly normal and expected), only points again to the of that I see clearly to be the normal reaction that boys and girls have experienced for years and years after a sound spanking is over.

By the way, yesterday, Saturday morning, I reviewed with Ted at breakfast a number of small offenses that had been mentioned to him during the last few days of the week, without any disciplinary action taken at the time--things like not bringing down in the morning some dishes and soda bottles from his room that had collected over a couple of days, a pair of his running shoes tossed in the bottom of his closet that were caked in hardened mud and dirt that should have been at least rinsed off and cleaned up when he removed them, and one pair of jeans with a rear pocket almost torn off (from roughhousing with pals) but tossed in the hamper without telling me it needed repair, and I reminded him that I had caught him on his phone Thursday night a half hour after lights out when I came up to check on him.

All small matters, true, but collectively--as he knew and admitted--they definitely warranted a turn over my lap. He knew the phone after lights out incident alone had earned him a spanking, but I had put it off to the weekend. So, after breakfast, I sent him up to wash himself thoroughly, waist to knees, and to bring the hairbrush down to the living room. Off came his tee shirt, PJ bottoms and slipper, and over my knees he went for a very sound hand and hairbrush spanking that he took, as always, very well--bawling his head off before I finished and doing the expected spanky dance before he then cuddled with me on the couch for about half an hour and was very much recovered when he went up to his bed for an hour or so before getting up to shower and dress for the day.

The whole punishment incident was taken in stride, with no anger or upset by either of us, and with lots of kisses and hugs afterwards, which he clearly enjoys. Those moments in my arms after his spankings really do create a closeness between us that I thoroughly enjoy and that seems to take away even the slightest of resentment on his part. I feel some parents miss a bet in not taking that time post-spanking to share some quality love and comfort with their children--but I know it does wonders for me as well as him. Nancy

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Re: SCHOOL NOTE--HOME SPANKINGS FOLLOW Pastor Robertson 09:59:10 04/07/25 Mon

Re: SCHOOL NOTE--HOME SPANKINGS FOLLOW -- Nick, too, 02:08:26 04/08/25 Tue

Re: SCHOOL NOTE--HOME SPANKINGS FOLLOW -- Pastor Robertson, 12:19:14 04/08/25 Tue

Re: SCHOOL NOTE--HOME SPANKINGS FOLLOW -- Jack, 20:57:32 04/10/25 Thu

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>Hi, Jason, thank you for your thoughtful note. > >I fully agree with you that the erections Ted has when >I bare him for spankings are not a sign that he likes >or is looking forward to the punishment he is about to >get. I have read that this is very common with tween >and teen boys and that it is a reaction to the nervous >anticipation, the unavoidable but nonsexual excitement >that boys feel when they have to bare themselves and >when they know that a spanking is to follow. Ted had a >huge erection when he was bared at the school in front >of his female principal, teacher, witness and me, and >that certainly had nothing to do with sexual >arousal--and everything to do with the circumstances >(baring himself in front of us) and the knowledge that >he was about to suffer very real pain in front of >everyone. > >I should mention that looking at the group present it >was impossible not to see that all of them, the >principal the rest, were feeling the same excitement >and rush of emotions seeing Ted like that just as I >was at that time. I feel confident that, despite any >denials anyone might make if asked, seeing a 13 year >old boy bare and erected like that for punishment >would have excited any normal female watcher, and I >actually believe, any normal male watcher as well. > >These reactions by Ted are repeated now, as I have >said, when I bare him and spank him at home and I do >feel a definite rush of emotion and pleasurable >excitement as I undress him, as I put him over my lap >in that erected state, and as I give him the hard >spanking he needs--but none of those feelings on my >part are involved in any way with any sexual desires >aimed at my son. > >I think this is something that any thoughtful person >can understand, but certainly any parent who spanks >realizes even if they have not thought the matter >through very carefully. The obviously pleasurable >aspects of those feelings, for me or for any >thoughtful spanking parent, are related very directly >to the feelings at the time that my son is about to >get a sound spanking, that I have seen very clearly >that his spankings now are very directly connected to >his improved behavior and to his much more respectful >and loving attitude toward me, to the fact that he now >thinks of me not as a wishy washy pushover of a parent >but as his strict but loving mother, and I know very >well that the hard crying he is about to do will >definitely benefit him in ways that are needed as he >grows and matures right now in these years. > >The fact that he later comes down from the agonizing >"high" of his painful spanking and that pain is >followed by feelings of great relief, of release of >all the pent-up feelings that preceded the spanking, >and that he then feels a great wash of definite >pleasure that his punishment is over and of great >pride that he took his punishment so well--I am not >surprised at all that this, in turn, does lead to >feelings of intense sexual arousal for which he finds >relief in masturbation. All perfectly normal and >expected), only points again to the of that I see >clearly to be the normal reaction that boys and girls >have experienced for years and years after a sound >spanking is over. > >By the way, yesterday, Saturday morning, I reviewed >with Ted at breakfast a number of small offenses that >had been mentioned to him during the last few days of >the week, without any disciplinary action taken at the >time--things like not bringing down in the morning >some dishes and soda bottles from his room that had >collected over a couple of days, a pair of his running >shoes tossed in the bottom of his closet that were >caked in hardened mud and dirt that should have been >at least rinsed off and cleaned up when he removed >them, and one pair of jeans with a rear pocket almost >torn off (from roughhousing with pals) but tossed in >the hamper without telling me it needed repair, and I >reminded him that I had caught him on his phone >Thursday night a half hour after lights out when I >came up to check on him. > >All small matters, true, but collectively--as he knew >and admitted--they definitely warranted a turn over my >lap. He knew the phone after lights out incident alone >had earned him a spanking, but I had put it off to the >weekend. So, after breakfast, I sent him up to wash >himself thoroughly, waist to knees, and to bring the >hairbrush down to the living room. Off came his tee >shirt, PJ bottoms and slipper, and over my knees he >went for a very sound hand and hairbrush spanking that >he took, as always, very well--bawling his head off >before I finished and doing the expected spanky dance >before he then cuddled with me on the couch for about >half an hour and was very much recovered when he went >up to his bed for an hour or so before getting up to >shower and dress for the day. > >The whole punishment incident was taken in stride, >with no anger or upset by either of us, and with lots >of kisses and hugs afterwards, which he clearly >enjoys. Those moments in my arms after his spankings >really do create a closeness between us that I >thoroughly enjoy and that seems to take away even the >slightest of resentment on his part. I feel some >parents miss a bet in not taking that time >post-spanking to share some quality love and comfort >with their children--but I know it does wonders for me >as well as him. Nancy

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