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Subject: Re: Is nudity really such a big deal?


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SarahF
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Date Posted: 08:30:53 08/18/24 Sun
In reply to: Jacki 's message, "Re: Is nudity really such a big deal?" on 21:19:49 08/17/24 Sat

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>Dana, You described being bared for a spanking quite
>well. From experience?
> And Sarah's spankings were much like mine. Being
>spanked as a teen is embarrassing enough, but having
>to take your clothes off while your mom watched is
>such a shameful helpless feeling.
> When my stepmother spanked me, I had to remove my
>shoes/skirt/jeans etc but she always pulled my panties
>down herself. I hated that so much and she knew it,
>she wanted to show she was in control by making me
>stand there while she peeled my panties down.
>
> I'd be blushing bright red, tears filling my eyes,
>fists clenched in anger and anguish as she made me
>step out of my panties. Then suffer a scolding while
>totally exposed front and back.
> Sarah is right, the sting from spankings fades but
>the humiliation of being bared and spanked to
>bawling/kicking lasts a LONG time with shameful
>memories popping up.
>
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>>>For one thing, nudity is not comfortable in many
>>>situations, which is why we don't all walk around
>>>naked everywhere we go. Context plays a major role.
>>>
>>>A parent making you disrobe as they watch is a moment
>>>of deep shame for many. It is not the same as just
>>>being seen naked. This is stripping for punishment.
>>>You lose the covering of your clothing because your
>>>body must be exposed, not because you were good, but
>>>because you were bad. This is where nudity becomes
>>>shame. This is where nudity becomes abject
>>>vulnerability. It doesn't matter that mom or dad has
>>>seen you naked many times before. In this situation,
>>>they are seeing you in a moment of disgrace. All that
>>>you will be wearing is the color of shame, a blushing
>>>red face and a red bare bottom.
>>>
>>>
>>>>
>>>>When I was a teen and Mom was going to spank me, she
>>>>sent me to my room. She then would come up . We
>would
>>>>talk about why I was being spanked. Then I would
>>strip
>>>>off my skirt, or jeans, and take my panties off
>While
>>>>she sat on my chair and watched. Now I play high
>>>>school sports and changed with the other girls in
>the
>>>>locker room. It was slightly embarrassing, but easy
>>to
>>>>get past. But when I strip down in front of Mom, I
>>was
>>>>embarrassed, humiliated, Warm, Blushed, and
>Flushed.
>>>>The embarrassment was intense. It lasted for days.
>>>>Everytime I meet eyes with Mom I would blush. Well
>>>>after the spanking was forgotten.
>>Thoes were my feeling , like you were reading my mind.
>>I just couldn't express it like that . Thank you Dana

Hello Jacki , you hit upon something when you mentioned control. Like I said in my original post , I was very athletic in high school. So changing and showering in the girls locker room , was embarrassing at first, but in time you got use to it, till it became normal. It was my choice to do it. Then I went into the military. In boot camp we lived in all female bay type Barracks. It was uncomfortable at first but you got use to it. When I got out of boot camp we lived in a dormitory style Barracks. 4 girls to a room with a communal shower and bathroom. Like any college Dorm . But again it was my choice.
So I was in control.
But standing in front of Mom as she lectured me on my behavior as a teen , she had the control. I unzipped my skirt and pulled down then grabbed the waist band of my panties and pulled then down as she watched. Knowing I was going to submit to the spanking, like you I was already crying with tears running down my face . I was 16 and read in the woman magazines about hygiene. So I pulled my panties down and Mom gasped. I had shaved and waxed my public hair. I stood there on full view, while Mom questioned me as to why. So besides the normal embarrassment, I felt that I totally lost all my privacy and control.

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Re: Is nudity really such a big deal?Jacki21:22:57 08/18/24 Sun


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