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Subject: Re: Dealing with unwanted erections

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Date Posted: 07:29:02 08/25/24 Sun
In reply to: johnny 's message, "Re: Dealing with unwanted erections" on 23:07:04 08/24/24 Sat

That makes sense, thank you. So you're saying to call him out on his erection, make him apologize to everyone (especially his sister), and then lightly tap his balls with a ruler to make the erection go down if it doesn't immediately?

>I'm not saying to give spankings on the balls (or
>vulva either), but boys' parts inevitably get swatted
>because they are prominent, but are never spanked hard
>enough to do damage. Erections are generally
>involuntarily, but at the same time are often
>considered to be rude, and caregivers therefore
>"forbid" them simply as a disciplinary measure to
>reduce the occurrences by having him focus on the
>offense and not on his sister or other girls. So as
>long as the boys are clearly making the effort, it's
>best to ignore the display and advise him verbally and
>have him apologize. I became used to focusing and not
>erecting. So be lenient and gentle, but don't tell
>your guests "just ignore that honey" if they are
>embarrassed by big erections. I'm very familiar with
>situations where girls say "eeuuwww gross" when they
>happen, and it distracts from the spanking. Teachers
>in schoolhouses in times past would not ignore
>difficult displays. So thank you for being concerned
>for his sister. The current trend toward "let it go"
>should not be forced on every single caregiver by
>pressure and name-calling. The best course is just
>moderately using a ruler on the balls to get the penis
>down to its more modest position, and telling him to
>apologize to his sister for any perceived rudeness so
>that she can have a more modest view of his parts. I
>was told to be more respectful, and to not give my
>sitter such positional discomfort while over her lap.
>We all understood the situation as a matter of course.
>I was spanked on my bottom as was common, not on my
>balls, but I might receive a half dozen modest swats
>on my front with "Keep that down!" or otherwise "learn
>to start behaving", especially during lecture. I got
>over it without whining, and was already crying
>anyway. It was nice of Debbie to be concerned for me,
>and to give some advice. Be gentle and don't obsess
>with the situation, but try to get the boy to
>cooperate as much as possible, including to get his
>display back down. And to cover his mouth when he
>yawns. :) (I would mention in passing that you can
>very briefly observe his development, and check for
>any abnormal feel in his balls, which is statistically
>much more common than any damage from spanking.
>Another fact for teen sitters to know.)

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Re: Dealing with unwanted erections Nick, too 01:09:43 08/26/24 Mon

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>That makes sense, thank you. So you're saying to call >him out on his erection, make him apologize to >everyone (especially his sister), and then lightly tap >his balls with a ruler to make the erection go down if >it doesn't immediately? > >>I'm not saying to give spankings on the balls (or >>vulva either), but boys' parts inevitably get swatted >>because they are prominent, but are never spanked hard >>enough to do damage. Erections are generally >>involuntarily, but at the same time are often >>considered to be rude, and caregivers therefore >>"forbid" them simply as a disciplinary measure to >>reduce the occurrences by having him focus on the >>offense and not on his sister or other girls. So as >>long as the boys are clearly making the effort, it's >>best to ignore the display and advise him verbally and >>have him apologize. I became used to focusing and not >>erecting. So be lenient and gentle, but don't tell >>your guests "just ignore that honey" if they are >>embarrassed by big erections. I'm very familiar with >>situations where girls say "eeuuwww gross" when they >>happen, and it distracts from the spanking. Teachers >>in schoolhouses in times past would not ignore >>difficult displays. So thank you for being concerned >>for his sister. The current trend toward "let it go" >>should not be forced on every single caregiver by >>pressure and name-calling. The best course is just >>moderately using a ruler on the balls to get the penis >>down to its more modest position, and telling him to >>apologize to his sister for any perceived rudeness so >>that she can have a more modest view of his parts. I >>was told to be more respectful, and to not give my >>sitter such positional discomfort while over her lap. >>We all understood the situation as a matter of course. >>I was spanked on my bottom as was common, not on my >>balls, but I might receive a half dozen modest swats >>on my front with "Keep that down!" or otherwise "learn >>to start behaving", especially during lecture. I got >>over it without whining, and was already crying >>anyway. It was nice of Debbie to be concerned for me, >>and to give some advice. Be gentle and don't obsess >>with the situation, but try to get the boy to >>cooperate as much as possible, including to get his >>display back down. And to cover his mouth when he >>yawns. :) (I would mention in passing that you can >>very briefly observe his development, and check for >>any abnormal feel in his balls, which is statistically >>much more common than any damage from spanking. >>Another fact for teen sitters to know.)

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