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>>Hello! I’ve been lurking here for a while and I need >>some advice. >> >>So my 14 year old daughter, J, just came out as trans. >> > >That's wonderful he feels comfortable enough at that >age to come out to the family. It will be of great >help down the road. > >>Ie, she was born we raised her as a girl and now she >>identifies as a boy. I’m sorry if I offend anyone >>I’m a little confused about the terminology! We’re >>perfectly happy with him identifying however he wants >>but we have a little discipline problem. >> >>Previously we’d agreed that I’d spank the girls >>and hubby would spank the boys. But now we’re a bit >>stuck! Should my husband start taking over spanking J? >>Or should I keep carrying out the spankings? >> > >I can see where that could be an issue. I would >suggest you, dad, and he sit down and discuss it. >Explain why you all have done spankings as you have, >but you are wanting to make sure He is ok with being >spanked like his sibling(s) by HIS father now. It's >going to be a change for him and it maybe that he >would like for you to be there for the first few >spankings. And, you need to consider how dad feels >about it too. Perhaps it would be best that he only >spank with implements at first. As to matter, place & >time, it should be same as his sibling brothers - >naked or not, positioning etc. > >>On one hand he’s a boy, he should have his father >>spank him. But on the other hand, the whole reason we >>split spanking duties was so our kids wouldn’t be >>embarrassed if they had … let’s call it >>“equipment malfunctions”. > >Well, for one thing there won't be any similar >'equipment malfunctions' with him. > >> >>Any help would be appreciated! > >This is certainly a good way to show he is fully >welcomed and accepted in the family. > >You can email me at GoodUncleJosh@proton.me and on >Trillian as UncleJosh if you want to further discuss >this. > >Josh

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