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>>At this moment, I am filled with confusion and >>anxiety. I hope to get some advice from you. My >>daughter is fifteen years old and is rebellious. >>Recently, I have discovered some extremely worrying >>situations. >> >>I have seen through her door several times that she is >>doing something inappropriate. It seems that she is >>masturbating. And once when we were watching TV, I >>also saw her hand involuntarily placed in the wrong >>place. >> >>My husband and I have tried many methods. Every time >>we see her like this, I will severely criticize >>her.After two warnings, I give her a spanking with a >>hairbrush. >> >>And We've even found her touching down there when >>watching TV.Her dad gave her a good spanking that >>time, followed by 12 strokes with the paddle. The >>paddle is a medium flat one, covering most of her >>buttocks. That's just an epitome. Actually,we have >>made her buttocks blistered several times for this, >>but it seems to have no effect. >> >>I asked other parents in church for advice and learned >>about some different parenting methods. There is a >>strict family who gives their daughters "maintenance >>spankings" twice a week. Once on Wednesday before >>bedtime, it's a hand spanking. Another time on Sunday >>morning, it's a combination of hand spanking and >>hairbrush spanking. And each time there are at least >>10 strokes with a belt or paddle if they misbehaved >>during the week. It's like they will get 2 spankings >>for each mistake. They only allow their daughters to >>masturbate after the Sunday spanking. If they find her >>doing it at other times, there will be even harsher >>punishments, that means a strapping on their crotch in >>diaper position. >> >>There is another family who will give their daughter >>six strokes with a cane for masturbating without >>permission. Actually, only when their daughter gets >>A's in her grades will they possibly agree to some >>things. >> >>There is also a very conservative family who makes >>their daughter wear a "chastity belt" for a long time. >>They are extremely strict with their daughters and >>will spank them for even the slightest mistake. The >>three daughters in their family are always rubbing >>their butts when I visit. It seems that their butts >>have never been comfortable, but their grades are >>indeed very good. >> >>They are also extremely strict with their daughters' >>studies. Before doing homework, they use a Jokari >>paddle to give six strokes as a warning. But their >>grades are truly excellent, either A's or B+'s. >> >>My daughter mostly gets B's, sometimes C's, and >>occasionally A's. My minimum requirement for her is a >>C. If she gets a C-, she will also be spanked. Six >>strokes for each grade difference. >> >>I am wondering if I am too gentle with my daughter? I >>am now very conflicted about whether to increase the >>severity of her punishment, but I am also worried that >>this will make her more rebellious. I really don't >>know what to do. I hope you can give me some advice >>and help me find a suitable way to guide my daughter. > >Hi! So I wouldn’t punish for stuff like this It’s >just normal. I guess if she were doing it all the time >where it’s ruining your plans or her chores then I >would but like in general I think her exploring is a >good thing but that’s just my opinion.

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