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[> Re: DD and Parenting -- Ines, 13:19:49 02/19/23 Sun [1]

>If anyone in a DD relationship has children, do you
>use spanking and if so, does husband do it or he
>expect you to as well? would love to connect with
>other ladies on this

Hi Lianne. We have 4 children and both my husband and I spank them.

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[> Re: Hello -- Tori, 09:53:58 09/20/22 Tue [1]

Hi. I wanted to say that last night my husband gave me a spanking for what he said was rude talk to him. I guess I was a little loud but I didn’t agree with him. I got a red butt.

>Hi. My names is Tori and I’m a 20 something here in
>the US. I’m in a relationship now with my husband
>where he does spank me when I’m being bad. We
>starting dating a few years ago and we are recently
>married and he is also the father of my 2 year old.

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[> [> Re: Hello -- Joe to Tori, 10:35:54 10/11/22 Tue [1]

Hi Tori: I know sometimes you really believe your husband is wrong. I will let you in on a secret, you might be right. Husbands, just like wives, come in every version but perfect. You know, it is not your responsibility to "make your husband see the light" if he is wrong. Respectfully tell him your views, and if he is smart, he will consider your opinion carefully. However, if he won't listen, or just does not agree with you just be sweet and say, well you're the boss honey. I guarantee you that when you are right, and his decision blows up in his face, he will think "I should have listened to Tori." He will probably never say it, but he will think it.
If on the other hand you argue and berate him, it will just make him more determined. The worst of all is if after it doesn't go right you say, "I told you so." Then he will think I don't care if it was wrong, it is worth it not to be hen-pecked. Blessings Joe

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[> Re: Hello -- Lara, 11:49:23 10/30/22 Sun [1]

>Hi. My names is Tori and I’m a 20 something here in
>the US. I’m in a relationship now with my husband
>where he does spank me when I’m being bad. We
>starting dating a few years ago and we are recently
>married and he is also the father of my 2 year old.

Hi Tori. My name is Lara and I'm in the same situation. My husband and I are married for almost 10 years now and do domestic discipline for about 8 years. He spanks me regularly when I don't follow the rules we agreed upon, half the time its me being late for something or procrastinating something to the very last minute.

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[> Re: Hello -- Annie, 10:12:08 12/09/22 Fri [1]

Tori, it hurts, I know, but it's right.

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[> Re: Hello -- Lianne, 15:59:35 12/20/22 Tue [1]

do you think you will spank as parents?

>Hi. My names is Tori and I’m a 20 something here in
>the US. I’m in a relationship now with my husband
>where he does spank me when I’m being bad. We
>starting dating a few years ago and we are recently
>married and he is also the father of my 2 year old.

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[> Re: Brand spankin new forum -- Annie E., 10:09:30 12/09/22 Fri [1]

I was 22 when I stopped being spanked by my parents and started getting spanked by my now late husband.

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[> Re: Introduction -- Tori, 08:35:08 10/09/22 Sun [1]

Hi. I got many whoopins coming up and my husband will spank me sometimes when I’m mouthy with him.

>I hope it is okay for me to post here. I am now a
>widower, but had a great marriage that included D/D. I
>hope to some day meet someone else. Blessings

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[> [> Re: Introduction -- Joe, 08:10:04 10/11/22 Tue [1]

Hi Tori:
Although I am sure you did not like being whipped as a child, I am also certain you are now glad that your parents disciplined you and "raised you right."
I think being mouthy is a reason for a husband to spank his wife. This nonsense that if dinner is 10 minutes late, etc., etc. the wife should be spanked is crazy IMHO. If my wife is working hard and something happens, or she miscalculates the
amount of time required I am not going to spank her. I am glad she is working hard to prepare delicious meals for me. This is just an example, similar things are not spanking offenses. Maybe, if it was a continuous occurrence and amounts to willful disobedience, but not for just a mistake.
With my wife the 4 Ds were what resulted in spanking: Disrespect, Disobedience, Dishonesty, and doing something Dangerous. My judgement is that I spanked less than most DD husbands, but my spankings were real and the butt was sore.
Blessings to you.
>Hi. I got many whoopins coming up and my husband will
>spank me sometimes when I’m mouthy with him.
>
>>I hope it is okay for me to post here. I am now a
>>widower, but had a great marriage that included D/D. I
>>hope to some day meet someone else. Blessings

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[> Re: Introduction -- Tori, 06:15:32 09/18/22 Sun [1]

Hi Maxwell. My husband is 10 years older then me and he knew my daddy gave me whoopins when I was living at home. My daddy once told him that I am a wild one and need my seat warmed to keep me in stead and he does.

>Hello,
>I'm hoping it's alright to post here. I wanted to be
>able to post the first message :) I'm not in a
>domestic discipline relationship, but I would like to
>be. With that I'll ask, how did people here present
>the idea of domestic discipline to your partner, and
>how did they react?
>Thanks!

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[> [> Re: Introduction -- Maxwell, 17:49:29 09/18/22 Sun [1]

Hi Tori,

Thank you for the response. How long have you and your husband been together?

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[> [> [> Re: Introduction -- Tori, 04:01:50 09/19/22 Mon [1]

Hi. He and I have been together about 3 years and I knew him for some more years but we weren’t together.

>Hi Tori,
>
>Thank you for the response. How long have you and your
>husband been together?

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