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>i think you should just tell her. if she really loves >you, she will not have a problem. when i told my first >girlfriend it helped me a lot. i agonized for weeks >about how to bring it up, and ultimately decided is to >not make a big deal out of it and tell the simple >truth. she didn't mind at all and was very supportive. >i even think her support and understanding helped me >overcome the bed-wetting. > >>Hi. >> >>I used to be a heavy bed-wetter when I was younger, >>but since I'm 17 I'm mostly dry and usually don't wear >>diapers anymore. 2,3 times a year I still have >>accidents, but that I can manage with just some >>mattress protection and the occasional pull-up when I >>sleep somewhere else. I'm 19 now and have my first >>real girlfriend. Things are getting pretty serious and >>she wants to spend the night together. I'm not sure >>I'm ready for her to know that I still have occasional >>accidents at our age and I for sure don't want her to >>see me in a pull-up. At the same time I'd love to >>spend the night with her. Doing it at my house would >>be better, because if I had an accident, at least I >>would ruin my bed not hers. Problem is, I still live >>with my parents and I haven't really told them that >>I'm gay. I really don't know what to do and its >>freaking me out so much, I recently had two wet nights >>in one week. That hasn't happened in over 3 years and >>it didn't help my anxiety. So I was hoping someone >>here might have some advice. Should I tell her? How >>would I even start this conversation? Should I just >>ignore it and hope for the best? Is there some magic >>form of protection I'm unaware off, that I could wear >>without her noticing? Please guys, help me out. >> >>Polly

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