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>I think that when you have tried everything you can >think of, you may have to spank. Shes not just wetting >and refusing to wear them its the other things she is >doing that is a major issue. > >She has to learn some things are not acceptable. You >can uses spanking in a loving caring way if you choose >to try that route. > >You care for her and want the best for her and her >health. I dont mind discussing here, but you can also >email me if you wanted to speak more privately > > >>Hi everyone. >> >>I have a 11 year old daughter that still wets the bed >>almost every night. So far this hasn't been much of a >>problem, but a few weeks ago she suddenly decided she >>is to old for diapers and refuses to wear them. It has >>become a real struggle, she outright refuses to put >>them on herself, and even if my husband or I do it, >>she just takes them off as soon as we turn of the >>light and she ends up in a wet bed anyway. It would be >>one thing if she had the occasional accident every >>once in a while. but it happens about 5-6 times a >>week, so the laundry piles up, her room constantly >>smells like urine, her sleep gets disrupted and she >>already developed a rash once. To make thins worse, if >>she wakes up to a wet bed in the middle of the night, >>she has made it a habit to just take of her wet PJs >>and sneak into her older brothers bed, rather then >>changing the sheets, disrupting his sleep as well. The >>other day she ended up wetting his bed as well. They >>are very close and he is super protective of her, so >>he pretended it wasn't a big deal, but in private he >>admitted that it was a bit disgusting. Not enough to >>tell her she can't sleep in his bed without her >>diapers on unfortunately. We already tried punishing >>her, grounding her and taking away her TV privileges, >>but to no avail. We don't spank our children, but I >>have to admit a few times I was tempted to put her >>over my knee and swat her wet pj bottoms until they >>are dry. >> >>We are at wits end and hope someone here might be able >>to give us some hints what else we can try? >> >>All the best, Karo.

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