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>>He definitely sounds like a little baby boy still. >>Nothing wrong with that. Kids develop at different >>rates. His body is saying he’s a baby by bedwetting >>and his attitude is saying he’s a baby by his >>laziness. Perfect time for DD! >> >>I have a 5 and 7 year old boys that I do DD with. I >>also have a 10 YO boy but he’s good about bedwetting >>and doesn’t need DD. Here’s what I would do. >> >>You and your wife sit down one night and a list rules >>of rules. Have fun with it too! Print the rules (maybe >>add some babyish clip art) and have a family meeting >>to discuss them. Allow him to ask questions. Hang the >>rules in his room. The first few days should be a >>probation period where he won’t be punished as >>he’s still learning. After a few days then any rule >>breaking will be followed by a spanking. You may want >>to consider a maintenance spanking program for a few >>weeks too. A 9 year old may not be as submissive to >>your rules and may need a sore butt to remind him to >>behave. We do this with our 10 YO. >> >>We have two sets of rules for when they are under DD >>and not under DD. >> >>When not being punished: >>Cartoon briefs at school, playing sports, or at a >>friend’s house. >>Pull-ups during the day on weekends, special events, >>when sick or traveling. >>Diaper at night >>Wears a potty training watch at home >>Has set potty times at school (the teacher reminds >him) >>Random inspections for wet underwear or skid marks >> >>When under DD: >>Diapers are on 24/7 and must be used. We use Huggies >>size 6 >>Wears babyish clothes like onesies at the house. Big >>boy clothes are allowed outside the home. >>Pacifiers are to stay in the mouth and no talking. If >>they want or need to talk they must raise their hand >>for permission. >>Bib on during mealtime >>Chair harness might be used during mealtime and while >>doing homework >>They are allowed regular food but we limit snacks and >>junk food. Under DD sodas is never allowed. They drink >>milk or bottle with formula. >>They must ask permission for everything >>They must hold an adult’s hand at all times in >>public >>No privacy is allowed. So they can’t shut doors and >>we use a baby monitor in their room >>Screen time is limited >>In a five point harness car seat >> >>You said he doesn’t like being naked. That’s >>unacceptable for a 9 year old boy. You should give him >>his baths and do bare bottom corner time. >> >>The thing about DD is it’s all about long term >>discipline. It might sound like a lot and you might >>think it will take all your time. But you can still >>have a normal life. For example, we took the kids to >>see a movie during Christmas break. They still wore >>regular big boy clothes. To anybody at the theater >>they looked like typical kids, but they had Huggies >>diapers on underneath their jeans. They still got >>popcorn and snacks but no soda. Instead I took a >>couple of bottles of formula in my purse. They still >>had fun and got out of the house but still had the >>reminder that they were babies. >> >>Also have fun with it! Maybe lay him down for a random >>nap. Buy some babyish bath toys. If, and only if, >>he’s well behaved then let him have fun with it too. >>Let him pick out his diapers or put chocolate milk in >>his bottle. My 7 YO loves Huggies Special Delivery >>diapers, he thinks they’re super comfortable. For >>Christmas we gave him a box (don’t worry he still >>got Legos and toys). He’s been good all week so we >>have been letting him wear them. >> >>Good luck! > >It’s funny you say some of the things you say, as >just this week my wife got him some pacifiers and we >make him use one any time he starts crying, whining, >or fussing about something. We also do already spank >him and do naked corner time after. This week after >his spanking we made him use the pacifier, I must say >he looked quite cute standing there naked with a >pacifier in his mouth and he was really sucking on it >hard. He also does still love his cartoon underwear >and isn’t embarrassed by them. So yes in many ways >he is still very much acting like a toddler. The >diapers go right along with it. I am going to talk to >my wife about ordering some bottles and sippy cups >from amazon.

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