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>>>We are fed up with my 9 year olds laziness with his >>>bedwetting. He has been in pull-ups and he will wet >>>them while awake before bed, leave wet pull-ups >laying >>>on the floor of his room and bathroom, come sit on >the >>>couch in the morning in a already wet pull-up and >then >>>pee in it again making it leak all over the couch and >>>he doesn’t even care. Well that all came to a head >>>over the holiday break. We are now making him wear >>>actual tape on diapers and he does not get to touch >>>them. We have gone back to how we did things when he >>>was a baby. We keep his diapers and changing things >in >>>the living room and that’s where all changes are >>>done. When we decide it’s time for him to get ready >>>for bed he has to strip naked and lay on the couch. >He >>>hated this part, he doesn’t like to be seen naked. >>>We then use a good amount of either diaper cream or >>>baby oil and generously apply it to his bottom and >>>genitals which often causes a erection which further >>>embarrasses him. Once his diaper is on the bathroom >is >>>off limits. He has to come ask for a change but if >his >>>diaper only a little wet he is denied a change. He >>>also isn’t allowed to wear anything over his >diaper. >>>He was absolutely mortified when family was here for >>>Christmas and his cousins saw his new routine. He >>>begged us to not change him in front of them but was >>>denied. We told him this was all his doing by being >so >>>careless with his pull-ups even after many reminders. >>>In the morning we decide when he is changed. We often >>>don’t change him till after breakfast so he is seen >>>by everyone in his very full and swollen diaper. A >few >>>times he has even had to poop in it. Not sure how >long >>>we will maintain this routine of punishment but it >>>will continue for a while. Oh yea nothing changes >when >>>we have his sitter here either, she changes his and >>>applies his baby oil or cream as well. Last time she >>>was here she asked if it would be ok to bring her >>>little sister that is my son’s age because her >>>parents also had plans that evening and we said or >>>course. He was not happy at all that night. >> >>Hey Cole, I understand your problems and know them >>from my boys. Just one question, are you comfortable >>with cleaning up poo? Then I may have some >>recommendations for you. > >I certainly don’t enjoy it. But he does occasionally >have poop accidents. Twice this year already we have >been called to the school because he pooped in his >pants. During his diaper punishment that is going on >right now, he is allowed to tell us when he needs to >poop, we remove his diaper, take him to the bathroom >and watch him poop, wipe his bottom for him, and re >diaper him.

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