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>>>Wow, those are some incredible recent developments. >>What >more do you feel you've learned about the boys >>since >putting them in diapers? >> >>A mixture of things, both emotional and physical. >>Emotionally, the boys have had to be a lot more open >>to us, and we've learned a lot more about Peter and >>Chase's feelings and emotions, and how it feels to >>grow up in the 21st century. Social media anxiety is a >>big one - the kids see their schoolmates having an >>amazing time on Instagram and get down. We have to >>remind them that they only post their positive >>experiences, they don't share any arguments they might >>have with their family, or the punishments/spankings >>they might receive for misbehaving, for example. >>Physically, I've learned a lot about the boys’ >>bodies. They can't hide behind baggy clothes anymore. >>Sometimes it feels like Chase and Peter are horny >>24/7, as if all teenage boys can think about is sex! >> >>>It's great that Chase has become more open with you. >>Do you >feel Peter has been less responsive to the >>diapers because >he is older or might he still be >>resentful for other >reasons? >> >>Yes, we think it's his age. He still thinks he's too >>old to be punished like this, and finds it very >>humiliating. Chase on the other hand understands why >>we have to do this, and is trying to work with us. >>Peter has also always been more stubborn than Chase. >> >>>Do you think Peter's friends want him to come over >>>sometime? I assume they know he's in diapers and know >>the >rule about wearing nothing over them when at >>home. Are you >close with the parents of his friends >>as well, do you have >a plan if either goes to a >>friends house and needs a change >while there? >> >>The boys’ rules are the same at friends’ houses as >>they are at home. We expect them to strip naked >>(except for their diaper) and remain that way >>regardless of who is around. We do not want any >>loopholes to our diaper discipline, aside from school >>where they have to wear clothes! Preferably their >>clothes would come off before they even get into their >>friend's car after school. But yes, Peter's friends >>know of his diaper rules. He has been invited over, >>but has not gone yet. We are trying to encourage him. >>It would be nice for him to get out of the house. The >>mother of one of his friends has even offered to >>change him at her house if needed (assuming he brings >>a spare diaper), which is very kind of her. >> >>>That's simply heartwarming hearing about Chase's >>friends. >The fact they gave him a hug instead of >>laughing shows they >are good kids. It doesn't sound >>surprising that they had a >lot of questions about >>diapers for you. Were they similar >to what you've >>gone over here, were you able to answer them >all? >> >>Yes, we were able to answer them all, although Chase >>was quite embarassed for a few of them. They asked how >>often Chase has to be changed, where he is changed, >>and whether he is really not allowed to use the >>toilet/really has to pee and poop in his diaper (they >>didn't believe him at school). I told them about using >>laxatives, and about how Chase is starting to lose >>control of when he pees and poops, which he found >>embarassing. This was while I was changing Chase on >>the kitchen table, so I showed the boys how to change >>his diaper. >> >>>Im glad Chase's friends were able to cheer him up >>after his >diaper change, what a silly oddball thing >>to do. Hopefully >this is a turning point for both >>boys to see they can still >have fun and enjoy >>themselves while in diapers. It sounds >like Chase is >>becoming less self conscious of his body >overall, >>which I believe you had expressed as a goal >before. >>>Was Peter out when this playdate happened, does he >>>know it turned out really well for his brother? >> >>Peter was out, yes. We have signed him up for some >>classes at our local community centre, and he was >>attending one of those. But he knows Chase's playdate >>went well, and we hope he has a similar experience >>soon. >> >>>I'm glad to hear you have another playdate already >>>scheduled, looking forward to hearing about it. >> >>The second playdate went well. We had the same boys >>over, and just like last time they spent most of the >>day in just their underwear to make Chase feel more >>comfortable. He really has great friends. I let them >>help change Chase's diaper, which they enjoyed. Chase >>was a lot more relaxed this time. > >Social media can be a real rabbit hole. I think it >would be important to remind them that they have >plenty of friends IRL who want to hang out with them >in person, regardless of their follower count, so it's >not like they're are being ignored or left out by >people at school. That's far more important than any >number of likes or cool status updates. >I get that Peter feels he's too old for diaper >discipline, but he'd probably feel too old to be put >back in diapers at any age after 4-5. It's not like >his brother (in the same situation) is that much >younger either. >Maybe he's worried that the punishment is preventing >him from doing more stuff with his friends (that you >would approve of) or that no girl will be interested >in dating him? Perhaps he fears the diapers will >forever prevent anyone from taking a romantic interest >in him, even if he's eventually allowed normal clothes >back. >I think he would benefit a lot from being around more >people who aren't freaked out by his diapers. I mean >his friends know pretty much everything about his >punishment and still want him to visit. I'm not really >sure what else you could do to convince him to accept >their invitation. Maybe have the next playdate for >Chase be at a time when Peter is also at home so he >can see it's not so scary? >That's really sweet one of the mothers of his friends >has offered to change him too. I know Peter is >probably very fearful about that happening but it >would probably be like getting a shot at the Dr, where >it seems more scary than it actually is. >Did Chase's friends seem interested when he needed a >diaper change, and that's why you showed how to change >him? Were you surprised that they enjoyed helping with >the change the second playdate? Sounds like they were >really curious without any preconceived notions of >what age or circumstance diapers could be worn. I'm >surprised they didnt ask Chase what the diapers felt >or what it was like to walk around in them. But maybe >they did previously. I guess it's good Chase wasn't so >upset this time or wishing they would not be present.

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