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Post 215A: It goes as it goes.

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Date Posted: 03:04:56 06/01/08 Sun
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Post 215A: It goes as it goes.

"How would you like it if I did the same thing to you?" I asked her. She said, "well, I would understand, I just don't want to know anything about it." That was the conversation after I found out my other half had cheated on me.
It happens all the time. Human nature being what it is, we are all obviously going to be attracted to somebody else at some time. None of us want to think mom may have cheated on dad, or dad cheated on mom. But, as we get older we realize it may have happened. The idea of "complete" monogamy in a marriage is, I think, a fallacy for the vast majority of people.
This idea of the "good girl" image has got to go. It denies the sexuality of women, the simple fact that they have as strong a sexual desire as do men, and makes any hint of female sexual desire seem as if it's something evil and corrupted.
I wonder if Jesus was married. Did it happen to him? Perhaps that's the whole idea of "forgiveness" he was trying to teach us.
Someone once said the secret of life is that all sins are forgiven. That the idea of "hell" was a phantasm to scare people into doing what the majority "preceive" as being the "right thing" to do (peer pressure). Yet, this same majority will cheat on their own spouse at some point in their marriage. It seems the right thing to do is not the same for all people at all times. One of the differences seems to be if one gets caught or not. It goes as it goes, like the river flows.
Discretion; discretion; discretion!

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