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Subject: maybe help

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Dani

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Date Posted: 19:45:26 06/12/02 Wed
In reply to: Seeker 's message, "Re: sh*t sh*t sh*t...." on 13:26:33 06/12/02 Wed

First, Id like to say that I dont judge you at all, and actually think you are brave for going though this.

My neighbour has a young son and ust broke up with the father. She is only 21, and the son is about 3. She is doing fine, she is going to school and studying hard...though her parents are allowing her to love at home and are caring for Paul (the child) the whole day. I for one think this is not a good family life for the child, no matter how ,uch he is loved. A child deserves a two=parent family, and if thats not possible at least a one parent family that is stable and can properly care for and nurture the child.

This is only my oppinoion and I dont know you personally, Im just going on the example I gave. Your situation may be different where you and the father will stay together. In my oppinion, if you are going to choos between Adoptoina dn Abortion, I would go Adoption. At least the child has a chance to survive and live its life, though I am nto against abortion at all. A lobing family will adopt your child and in the future, he or she will attempt to find you. Probably. I hope this has helped, you will be fine *hugs* everything will turn out alright

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Subject	Author	Date
okies	.Cassie.	23:48:15 06/12/02 Wed
well, here are my words on it, Kalie, -- Julia, 18:59:05 06/17/02 Mon