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Subject: 自信與自卑


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Date Posted: 23:13:28 01/29/02 Tue

以下是明報副刊的一篇散文:

過猶不及往往適得其反,自信是好,過度自大反變自卑。
自卑的人最愛踐踏人,他們要傷害別人來平衡心理 ;
即使位高權重依然自卑,要以超乎常理的言行去證明自己,
基於沒有信心做常人,自卑的人愛扮強人。
自信的人不欺凌弱小,不趨炎附勢,不介意卑微,
不屑用旁門左道伎倆謀好處,不怕被人迎頭趕工.......
自信的人大多自愛,自愛才懂愛人,自信才會信人 ;
因為自信,樂於扶助後進,憧得平等,不卑不亢地跟任何人交往。


依我看,我應屬於過度自大吧!
是的,我喜歡踐踏別人,抬高自己,但一切惡劣的行為,只限於家中。
到外面又如何? 誰都知道“扮好人”可以收賣人心。
難道我會當面叫人“收皮”嗎?! 難道我會用中指指著人叫他get away 嗎?
不可能吧! 因為人有“羞恥之心”,懂得收歛,久而久之就變成 “偽裝”了。

自信和自卑,並不一定是與生俱來的。
社會的浸淫,文化的衝激,都可以使人改變。

噢! 對不起,不知自己在說什麼,算了,好一篇即興寫的散文。

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