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Date Posted: 20:34:32 02/17/02 Sun
Author: Daniela
Author Host/IP: 68.56.114.6
Subject: Life
In reply to: Mallow Gal 's message, "Fine" on 18:08:13 02/16/02 Sat

PPL life doesn't suck all the time it's just difficult and confusing. Even the people who seem to have a perfect life don't have it, they also have to go through the same things everyone else does. Life doesn't suck it just has its moments; happy, sad and crazy ones learn and enjoy them for they help build up both character and strength (I sound like a counselor…or maybe a psychologist). Well anyway enjoy it! Smile and think that everyday is a new adventure…

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[> [> Re: Life -- MallowGal, 23:20:15 02/17/02 Sun (68.56.241.106)

You don't know everything. I'm sorry if I'm sounding a little snappy but my life really stinks at times. I hate stress. Stress=family. Stress=school. Stress=my whole entire life. AAAAAAAaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhHHHHHHHHH. You don't know anything about me. None of you do. I don't even understand myself. This immaturity is just some mask I wear to keep all my real thoughts of people inside. This modesty is just a facade of buried pride. I hate this. Sometimes I act even stupider than I really am. I'm standoffish and lily-livered. I'm everything I shouldn't be. I cover up everything. I cry everyday because I don't know why I am the way I am. I don't know anyone who does things like I do. Life is confusing. When you try to understand why anyone acts the way they do, it's just impossible. I'm either never going to take psychology because it'll be too confusing or I will definitely want to take it so I can finally understand. It's all my mom's fault. She incites every single fear, sadness, stress, and anger I have within me. Life is sucks when it's confusing. Bye.

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[> [> [> Re: Life -- Daniela, 14:58:53 02/18/02 Mon (68.56.114.6)

But you should try to talk to people about what u feel and I mean as in detail. PPL can try to understand, u have friends and we will always be there for u... we are just a phone call or a walk (Becky and Kat) away. I understand life is confusing and stressful I go through that too. Pressure to be something different from what you are is also always. I'm also thinking about taking psychology for one reason: 1) to understand. Life does suck when it is confusing but I promise it won't be all the time. We all have pride and we are all at times immature. We al hide a secret part of us and it makes us unhappy when we want to show it but we can't, we can't explain why it is that way. Crying can relieve most of that feeling for periods of time but talking is the real relief. I suggest that you talk to someone you trust; believe me you will feel better. We all have something like two personalities, the one we show everyone and the one we keep to ourselves. We just need to learn to live and handle both, it takes time but it is rewarding when u do. In my case I have more than one (in my own opinion and in the opinion of other people who know me); they are part of one-person just different sides of it. Brie, don’t cry. There are many ways in which we act or in which we do stuff that we don’t understand why. It doesn’t mean we are dysfunctional or anything like that. It’s just part of being a teenager and learning who you are. Good luck and I hope I helped you in someway…

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[> [> Re: Life -- Jen, 20:11:01 02/19/02 Tue (68.56.114.170)

Daniela, very good advice. You should stick to it yourself! Talking really helps. Daniela and I talk almost every day, until she gets grounded. That is everyday except for today! Well feel better! I am always there to talk!

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