Author:
Nicole (Resilient but Weary)
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Date Posted: 21:25:12 04/18/13 Thu
Yes yes and yes again, how can there not be.... a connection....., we know we are not stuipid, in fact we look around us and see many of the 'success' stories of life and witness much arrogance and stupidity. We have been marginalised from a very young age.Labelled early in life as either lazy stupid or both. Some of us turned to substance abuse to numb the pain of rejection and failure, substance abuse itself leads to other mental issues. Rejection and failure effect self esteem, low self esteem along with the reality of not being able to achieve what we wish to, not attain a fullfilling education and job, unless we are lucky enough to find the right support. Finding a job/career without qualifications and the low self esteem we carry around weighing us down, ensures this is virtually impossible.... more rejection. All of these will lead to depression. Of course there are the failed relationships because people are not on our wavelength, do not understand us. Then 'foolishly' we give birth and the cycle perpetuates, we give birth to dyslexic offspring and we witness their slow demise through the education system. More rejection for our kin and we are not in a strong position to support them. We are not lawyers and doctors, psychologists, we are not in a position of power, we do not have the connections. We live in chaos and feel alienated because we do not have the skills to keep order or make good connections. Partners leave and then we bring up our children alone and continue to watch their rejection. Of course we are depressed!!!
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