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Date Posted: 10:20:20 11/15/24 Fri
Author: More inside
Subject: Refreshing to have a dancer point of view. I feel the same
In reply to: Please stop 's message, "You think it’s an advantage having flames and globes? We get marked down because of them. Judges tank us for wearing them but we keep going because we love our sport. I don’t podium anymore and I don’t even look at my scores I just love dancing and being with my friends. I wish you moms would just stop all of this and let us enjoy dancing." on 20:41:04 11/14/24 Thu

My mom complains about this stuff non stop and often says stuff like “I don’t know why we’re even in this sport” and “it’s all fixed anyway”

It is so hurtful but I can’t say anything to her. I’ve tried and she just gets angry

I love dancing and the travel and the friends and would love the time I spend with my mom but she’s constantly complaining and if anything it makes it harder for me to concentrate on dancing. I do relatively well and feel my results pretty much match my effort. If I’m working hard (truly) and taking corrections it shows in my results. If I’m at a low point or have too much on at school etc
and haven’t practiced as much and Mom is on me about it my results are not as great

I prefer to travel without her if possible. It’s a lot less distracting and fun

I wish she’d just let me dance and leave me be. Or join in my fun But the negativity is too much

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