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Date Posted: 10:14:34 06/21/04 Mon
Author: Nick T.
Subject: ubf is Golwalla on a larger scale
In reply to: Chris 's message, "Golwalla again" on 05:20:11 06/21/04 Mon

The above article was brought to my attention by my father, who on Father's Day was painfully reminded of how I was lured into the ubfcult and he felt helpless to keep me from the traps of ubf. (The Golwolla article centers on the physical abuse. ubf had lots of physical abuse back then, now they are mainly using spiritual and emotional and financial abuse.)

One time my father arranged for me to speak with a man who is a Wheaton grad and son of a minister. This was around 1986, I want to say. After talking together for an hour or so, the man told my father that there didn't seem to be any reason to worry. He just didn't understand the cult problem, as Chris says, so very few do. I actually don't remember one word the guy said, as I was so indoctrinated into the ubf mindset that I was merely blocking any thoughts he tried to bring to my attention. There really is thought control, I was under it for many years.

As time went on, I became more and more cemented into the ubfcult, and fell away from my parents and family totally. Yesterday, my fatherand I had about a 20 minute talk, prompted by my father reading the Golwolla article. It is still very vivid to my parents the suffering they went thru when I joined the ubfcult. Looking back, they tried to get thru tome, but they lament that there were no sources of info to show to me that ubf was an abusive cult. Our websites are a godsend to warn recruits what ubf really does.

To me, the ubf was a genuine Christian group that was worth leaving everything behind, even my family and sacrificing my future. Over time, it began to become apparent that there were serious, dangerous problems at the ubf. But these dangers had been very skillfully hidden from me. And when they did become visible, there were many, esp ubfKoreans, who offered a whole slew of lies and excuses to keep my head in the ubf. The 1989ubfarrangedmarriage kept me in the shadow of ubf long after my head began to come out, maybe another nine years.

Some of the big events were the departures of very active and high ranking members such as James Kim and Gus Park and John Shin and the departure of dozens of ubfKoreans in Chicago and many well respected Americans (afterwards the ubfins could say nothing but evil about all these people), the departure of the whole Ohio State group, and the Donna A. fiasco (which was repeated several times since then). Personally, I could not reconcile how I could never recruit anyone in like 8 years of recruiting, tho following every ubf idea they could throw out there.

I had quit all forms of ubf study by 1992. I languished in a state of depression for another six or seven years, waiting for ubf to miraculously change. There was all kinds of motivation and opportunity for ubf to change, but it never happened. On the positive side, every year or two a new child came to my life, and they were a great comfort to me to forget the bad taste of ubf.

Finally in 1999, I began to come back to my senses after deciding on my own that I should take some adult continuing Ed Bible classes at the Moody Bible Institute. The classes cost only ten dollars apiece. It was the best ten dollars I ever will spend. I got to spend time around reputable Christians, study the Bible in a non-twisted manner (this means no ulterior motives such as to make a ubfKOP or whatever). I got to see the students at Moody and how they conducted themselves with grace and joy, and it was very natural and not artificial. Eventually, I was able to start to see that ubf was against what reputable Christian groups are all about. Finally, thru tremendous pain and suffering, I had come to know the truth about ubf. At his very time, my ubfspouse filed for divorce in January 2002, about the same day that EE Chang Woo was killed in a fire while in the toilet at his mortgage free home.

I am now in the position where my own parents were almost 20 years ago, but I now worry about not one, but five of my own children, who are being sucked into a cult that hides its dark and sinister side untill a person is trapped. Please pray for these five innocent children as the ubf financed divorce drags on.

Anyone who is contemplating joining the ubf, please don't do it. You will regret joining the ubf. There are so many healthy and genuine ministries. Stick with reputable Christians. God bless you all.

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Re: ubf is Golwalla on a larger scale -- Robert, 21:14:04 06/22/04 Tue