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Date Posted: 20:35:26 04/14/05 Thu
Author: PECAS
Subject: One-Sided Shame Based Culture
In reply to: PECAS 's message, "Jimmy Swaggert vs. Samuel Lee" on 19:31:34 04/14/05 Thu

The shame-based culture of UBF Koreans is only applied to the UBF member that is higher on the spiritual order. The sheep should cover up the shepherds sins. The regular members cover up the leaders' sins. However, the shepherds freely and openly discuss the sins of their sheep and the leaders discuss the sins of the regular members. My chapter director, a senior leader, would talk to me about my faults and mistakes with everyone. He did not care to save my face. Yet, I was required to always save his face.

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