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Date Posted: 11:37:18 03/02/05 Wed
Author: Nick T.
Subject: Hey ubf member, please come back
In reply to: ubf member 's message, "questions" on 19:12:56 02/14/05 Mon

Hey ubf member,

I think we can have a dialogue with you, but I would like to make some suggestions.

First, you came out here with not one or even two, but SEVEN really big, open ended questions. It gave the impression that you do not want to dialogue, but to try to overwhelm anyone who would dare to answer. I would like to see you ask one meaninful question, and then see if we can make a dialogue. Could you try that, please?

Second, make sure the questions are not loaded, at least not too heavily loaded. For example, number 4, 'Does God dwell in ubf at all?' is totally a loaded question. Loaded simply means that there is a hidden implicatoin somewhere in the question. Your question can be interpreted as a setup, if we say 'No" then you may quote "In whose hand is the soul of every living thing, and the breath of all mankind" (Job 12:10).

Third, I find it inappropriate for you to put forth your questions upon us without acknowledging any of our viewpoints. Have you read any of the postings here? What is your take on the issues we raised? Also, what are your answers to your own questions? To create a dialogue, we must acknowledge in one way or another what the other side is saying. We either agree or disagree, and these are where we agree/disagree.

I would like to ask you to try again in the format I suggest. Please give us another try. God bless.

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