Date Posted:14:15:20 10/23/04 Sat Author: Hannah Subject: Re: Already Married: Second class In reply to:
Nick T.
's message, "Re: Already Married: Second class" on 13:51:14 10/23/04 Sat
Well, I know a few couples that came to ubf with a boyfriend and got married to that man in ubf, and both are still in ubf. I really wish that UBF leaders would realize that there is nothing wrong with falling in love with a godly and Christian man. The thing is, they can't generalize that all UBF men are godly and so on. They are too focused on if a man serves UBF more than him serving God. This is why I will not allow anyone to choose who I will get married to, even if I'm a second gen and in UBF.
"Anyway, the ubf has a very clear strategy to break up relationships, no matter what the relationship is. They use the excuse they are stopping Americans from sinning, but why don't they stop their own ubfKorean leaders from sinning and lying and deceiving, etc?"
I wish I knew the answer to that too. God allows us to have emotions to be attracted to people and so on. We just need to use them in a correct manner!