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Date Posted: 00:42:47 08/17/04 Tue
Author: Mike K.
Subject: Same
In reply to: Joe 's message, "Re: To Mitch and J" on 23:03:02 08/16/04 Mon

Their showing up at your place of employment unannounced should tell you something about them. It at least shows how desperate and dysfunctional they are.
I'd undersign that also.
They call it "shepherd's heart", but suppose you were a girl and your ex did that... it might be called "stalking" and if that is love, then there's no such thing as love.

And then after their inevitable excuses, justifications and rationalizations, I would have told them on no uncertain terms that I do not want to have anything more to do with them.
Yes.
Also remember the typical catchphrase "Is it God leading you that way? Are you sure it's God? Is it REALLY God?" (well, sometimes they are like this, asking repeatedly in different contexts)
This is to impose a bad conscience on you.
You can turn the stick around very simple by saying "If you'd really have a burden from God, then you would know the reasons why I cannot remain." - because this is exactly the trick they love to play on YOU at times: "I know that you have a problem", so turn it around and tell them "If you know that I have a problem and what it is, why don't you solve it but make me feel guilty for not being able to tolerate your abuse?"

In Christ,
Mike K.

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Re: To Mitch and J -- Mitch, 11:20:29 08/21/04 Sat

False claims about arranged marriage -- Chris, 12:15:11 08/21/04 Sat