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Subject: Re: Good report? Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2025, 07:21: am In reply to: AV 's message, "Good report?" on Saturday, January 11, 2025, 09:49: am AV, I don't talk to sitter's mom very often because it is depressing. She is an example of how some people should not be allowed to have children. When we do talk it is about all the grief mom has suffered with more work and costs and inconvenience she has suffered with her daughters' toileting issues. And the awful fights they had over getting a Fleet enema after a bed wetting. She doesn't even know that her daughter is a withholder. She thinks her daughter just doesn't wipe good after pooping and that's why her underwear are all stained. Her main concern right now seems to be is she sassy or uncooperative with me and am I sure she can't pay me a little something to clean her out once a week because the nurses charge hundreds of dollars to give her enemas. Yeah the little guy was full on fight for his honor when we took him in to the bathroom to get him undressed and the suppository in him. It got physical. But once he had his suppository in him he knew he was defeated. We turned him loose minus his underwear and he ran to his room whimpering. We had it timed so that we were in the bathroom with his enema bag ready when his suppository pushed him our way. He had little fight left for us for his enema. I didn't have to help her but I stayed during his enema in case he thought about resisting her. She talked to him while giving him his enema. He couldn't see me and I think he thought I had left. She was just telling him what a good boy he was and that she and his brother have to have the enemas too and they don't fuss over them. She rubs his butt and tells him to just relax and breathe slowly and let his tummy take the water in. She was unable to get her stool out after two sits for about 5 minutes each. It was even work for her to get a huge stool out with her suppository helping. They are toilet clogging poops this girl keeps stored in there. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Good report? Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2025, 08:20: am Shelly, That is sad to hear about the mom. Basically, really, what mom has done is push all her enema “troubles” your way so she doesn’t have to deal with them. Sad sitter has to go home to that kind of drama. Little junior! What a fighting name. Sitter is doing good with him. This is the best part, “She was just telling him what a good boy he was and that she and his brother have to have the enemas too and they don't fuss over them. She rubs his butt and tells him to just relax and breathe slowly and let his tummy take the water in.” Seriously, that is what it is going to take. Some coaching, soothing, relaxing talk. He may be stubborn but most kids his age want to follow rules and stay out of trouble and be rewarded. By sitter rubbing him and relaxing him and sharing with him that she and brother take enemas also may help him. You and sitter are doing it right. Giving him that suppository first and forcing him to come back to you two waiting just sets him up. Oh, do I know about toilet clogging poops growing up. I always described them as baseball bats. They were huge and as long as a locomotive. Her colon is slow. Does she do any physical activities at her age and grade? That will help. She might be stressed as well living in the conditions she does with her mom making her tighten up and become constipated. I am a big fan of eating bananas and drinking room temp water. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Good report? Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Sunday, January 12, 2025, 05:35: pm Shelly, From personal experience, if I lay or sit around without hardly any movement my colon slows down and I become blotted and eventually constipated. Just recently that happened. I could have played santa claus with the way I felt I looked. When I eventually got outside and started on some cleaning up yard work, I activated my colon. No joke, for about 4 days straight I was on the toilet. You heard that saying you’re full of crap, well I literally was, full. Eventually my stomach tore up and I went around the 4th day and I literally felt my stomach deflate. I had completely emptied my entire colon. Felt like I lost 20 pounds. My stomach was gone. Said all of that to say this, staying active keeps the colon active. If sitter is not active, they may be something plus stress will tighten you up as well. I catch myself now doing the blowing up the balloon breathing to help me. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Good report? Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, January 16, 2025, 01:11: pm Good reports all around. Sunday both sitter and oldest son did quite well calmly taking their enemas. Yesterday sitter was able to give me a poop without a suppository. It is work for her but she tries hard for me. It really helps to lube her really good because she passes such a large stool. When she felt like she was almost done emptying I left to have some time on the town to myself. She said if she had any trouble from the little one that she would employ his brother to help control him. I guess brother did help get him over her leg for his enema but they both said the little guy did not fight but just resisted physically and verbally telling them he hates them. Nothing new. He hates enemas and hates those who give enemas. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Good report? Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, January 16, 2025, 05:40: pm Good to hear. Junior seems to be ok with his enemas. Now little junior seems to be a different beast. He got an enema on Wednesday? He gets one also on Fridays? He can verbally say he hates enemas and hates the ones who gives enemas as long as he is getting them, isn’t that what counts? He is getting a good cleaning out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Good report? Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, January 16, 2025, 11:22: pm Shelly, Let me ask a couple of questions if I may. How does the sitter feel about giving the boys their enemas? Is it therapy for her you think? I think it helps her. I kinda feel also she may if she continues to rub and relax and talk to little junior, she might help him but like you said he hates the enemas and hates anyone giving them. Hopefully that will eventually change. How does junior feel about the enemas now. Seems he likes the attention by the sitter. I chuckle thinking how junior possibly felt helping sitter get little junior, his arch rival at times, over sitter’s leg to get his enema, he probably enjoyed doing that to him. Big brother power. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Good report? Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, January 17, 2025, 12:01: am AV. Yes our little guy knew that sitter was coming over last night and I guess he thought that meant it was enema night for him. I caught him in his bedroom legs locked and red face just moments before she arrived and I didn't have time to deal with him. I told him if he made so much as a mark in his underwear he would get an enema. Guess what? His underwear was smeared. Sitter washed them out as best she could in the sink but it earned him an enema. He hadn't pooped since Mon. eve so he needed to give me a poop. I told her to do what was needed to get him to poop. So she takes giving them their enemas very serious like she is their mommy and this is what they need. It is precious to watch. She doesn't do it to torment them she truly takes enemas seriously because she has to have them too and she tries to be nice to them while making sure they cooperate and just get it done with. And yes he has not escaped his scheduled Fri. enema. He needs to stop this withholding or I will put him on daily enemas. I want to think that he only stood there with legs locked because he thought it was enema night for him, poor thing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]