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Subject: Re: Teen withholds her stools

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Kitten Paw

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Date Posted: Saturday, December 14, 2024, 11:33: pm
In reply to: Shelly 's message, "Re: Teen withholds her stools" on Saturday, December 14, 2024, 07:45: pm

Okay my fever broke just before my enema. Mom says it is back to normal. 99.8 rectal. You forgot and I'm the one with delirium. I get to help mom give enemas at patients homes. And yes I hope they try to fight us so I can help her control them and give them their enemas and see the fear in their eyes and I love it especially when the boys cry and beg and we give them their enemas anyway. 13 year old boy was my favorite and one of the first ones I went with to help mom. He had never had an enema and he cried and begged like a 4 year old girl.

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Kitten Paw
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Date Posted: Sunday, December 15, 2024, 10:37: am

No more rectal temps and no more enemas woohoo! And I'm starving. That was a rough one! I agree with Joyce that she will feel comforted if you let her feel like she has some choice in how her enemas go but here's the deal. I have channeled her and this is what she will tell you she doesn't like. She has seen that picture of the knee-chest enema position on the Fleet enema box a hundred times and seen herself and she doesn't like it. 50 50 chance her first ever enemas in her life from mom were in that position. And she was told now don't get up, stay right there until you feel like you can't hold it anymore. When mom started allowing her, no that's making her, give herself her Fleet enema I guarantee she does not use that position. She feels comforted with the contact of your bodies when she is over your leg. And a reassuring hand on her back rubbing her and talking her down off her anxiety. Her biggest triggers right now is not that you have her in a certain position for her enemas. Her triggers are the sensations of you lubricating her rectum with that applicator and then the nozzle moving through her rectum and the feeling of getting full with her enema knowing that she will soon be on the toilet trying to get it back out which is also a big trigger for her because the nurses stood there for three hours watching and listening to her get her enemas back out. Talk her through those triggers that you can't remove. One of them you can remove. All children learn at about 3 or 4 years old that you don't share sitting on the toilet to poop with anybody because mom doesn't. She doesn't want these enemas today but she does want you, Shelly, to be the one that gives them to her. Help her with her triggers about taking enemas.

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Andrea
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Date Posted: Sunday, December 15, 2024, 03:49: pm

Wow what a bright and thoughtful young lady!

Kitten Paw you hit on all the high points and it is because you live them. Lord knows you lived them this weekend. Good girl for helping Shelly through this even though you were in such misery yourself this weekend. You are very unselfish.

I have followed Shelly's posting here from the beginning and although I never had enemas as a child I have a withholder child. She is 10 now and has suffered incredible torture with oral laxatives with no sign of hope.

I was in the drug store a few months ago with her in tow buying laxatives and pull ups and baby wipes. She had tears in her eyes and clinging to me like a lost puppy. And you could tell that under her pajamas she had on a pull up. Their little bottom looks a lot bigger than it really is with a pull up on under jammies.

A very young mom with about a 5 year old was behind us checking out too. She followed us to my car and asked if she could talk to me.

Long story short, she somehow just knew what was going on. Her little boy had started withholding a year ago. She also was told to give oral meds. She got on line and found the M O P program for bedwetting and thought why can't it work for kids that won't let their stools out.

My precious is now on the M O P for going on five months. She gets a small enema every night before bed. She will be on it for at least another year. That is not from any Doctor's orders. That is from mom's orders who found a way to rescue her.

She is very fine with her nightly enema and will ask for it frequently. Then in a year I will free her from the enema and she can manage her bowel movements.

Kitten Paw your mom is doing the work of an angel. Go with her as often as she needs you to get some poor child cleaned out so they can be put on maintenance enemas.

Your explanation of what the sitter's triggers are were 100% square on and I'll bet Shelly read it over a couple of times until she memorized it. Love to you.

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