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Subject: Re: We had a big cry together Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Wednesday, January 01, 2025, 06:32: pm In reply to: AV 's message, "Re: We had a big cry together" on Wednesday, January 01, 2025, 12:31: pm She has just left and I didn't make her have an enema today because we got a bowel movement without the suppository and I felt it would be okay to reward her with no enema. I told her to be here again Fri. afternoon and if she is able to poop without the suppository again we can wait until Sun. for her clean out enemas. Since she doesn't live with us if I can get her to poop every other day or three then we can empty her colon every Sun. and her colon will still be getting the rest it needs. We did have to work at it. I lubed her as soon as she got undressed to help maybe getting her anus and rectum a little stimulated. After about 7 minutes and no success I had her get up and just walk around the living room and back to bathroom for a few minutes and then sit again. A few times blowing up a balloon. Finally on her second sit she let it out. I told her how proud I was of her and no enema today. It was stressful for her but she acts so relieved like a huge weight has been lifted off her once the stool is in the toilet and she can get up and be done with it all. It is so much work for her emotionally to let her bowels empty. I feel so bad she goes through this. The mind is so mysterious how it will fight with itself about something so simple as pooping. While she was sitting to distract her from worrying about me being in there monitoring her we talked about how my 7 year old likes her giving him his enema because she isn't mean and that my 4 year old listens to him talk about her giving enemas without being mean and if she wants to try working with him about his enema this Sun. then if she comes a little early we will get her clean out done and then hubby and I will go for an afternoon lunch and she can try to work her magic with both our boys. She was hesitant. What if he fights her? I just told her don't let him hurt you. When we get home she and I can give him his enema then. So she is for it. She said it does make her feel better about having to have enemas here at my house because my boys need the enemas too. Kitten Paw you are right about taking phobias head on. My hubby went through therapy about a horrible phobia he has of yellow jacket wasps. He isn't afraid of bees, other smaller species of wasps, other insects. But we all most all died one day in the car when he was driving and looked down and a yellow jacket was on his pant leg. We ended up in the ditch with a wrecked car. His therapy included daily pictures or videos looking at yellow jackets. He is better now. Won't wreck our car if he sees one. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: We had a big cry together Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Wednesday, January 01, 2025, 08:12: pm Shelly, All good reports. Im so proud of the sitter. I just can’t stop thinking about how you said you wished you could give her an enema and I know this is enema therapy but here you are, actually helping her though face a fear through all of this. Proud of you Shelly. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: We had a big cry together Author: Andrea [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Thursday, January 02, 2025, 07:26: am Shelly, My 10 year old has a fight going on in her own mind as well. She is a holder but she is not allowed to hold because she gets an 8oz. bulb syringe enema every night before bed. She is very capable and has my permission to give herself her enema. She will come and harass me if I'm doing dishes or laundry or something and she thinks it is time for her enema because there is no way she can make herself do the enema on her own. Your sitter comes to you because she feels so great now and has energy and appetite and no tummy aches while at the same time dreading you having her on the toilet to force bowel movements from her. Repetition and consistency is her path to recovery. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]