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Subject: Re: Surrogate Parent

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Shelly

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Date Posted: Monday, January 20, 2025, 10:09: am
In reply to: AV 's message, "Re: Surrogate Parent" on Sunday, January 19, 2025, 02:02: pm

AV,

I think Kitten Paw was right. She sees no serious threat that she will have to submit for 'Enemas 'Til Clear' from the Home Health Care nurses because she figures they are not going to drive 25 miles out in the country to give her enemas. So now her enema battle has been reduced to just a fight with me.

We had planned on using the three days she had off from school to getting the man cave room transformed in to an awesome teenage bedroom. We got about half of it painted Sat. We were going to finish up yesterday on the painting. And today go look for wall art or posters or wall hangings and any other furnishings to top the decoration off for her. She left in a huff Sun. morning, turned her phone off so I couldn't communicate with her and was a no-show all day. Finally as it was getting close to dark I called her mother and she said yes daughter was helping move and since she didn't have school on Mon. she would just stay over night at the new house. And she was going to help mom clean at the old house today. I'm trying not to feel disrespected. She owes a good soapsuds enema clean out when she shows up today. And if she turns her phone off because she doesn't use it I might just confiscate it for a few days.

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Author: AV [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: Monday, January 20, 2025, 11:13: am Shelly, Kitten Paw has been right on everything. Nailed everything to a tee. I hope a peaceful conversation and respectful talk comes forth but if not, Shelly, you do what you have to do. Sounds like sitter needs a good soapsuds cleaning. How are the boys doing? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

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Andrea
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Date Posted: Monday, January 20, 2025, 12:38: pm

Shelly, As AV would say you are going to have to do a 'shock and awe' for sitter to get her attention or you will continue to get disrespected. I did this with my daughter when she continued to get more physical and abusive with her language about the third enema she needed. I went to Walgreens and got a bottle of Castor Oil laxative and mixed a double adult dose in a glass of orange juice and made her drink it. It is the most unpleasant, crampy way to get your colon emptied. Tell her if she doesn't drink the whole glass you take away phone and keys to car for the whole week. Do this only if she comes home at least for hours before bed time. Then I would get her up early in the morning and give her a good rinse enema because castor oil is of course an oil and she may leak and not know she is about to. Don't want that to happen to her at school. My daughter was 100% compliant after that experience.

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