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Subject: Re: Two steps forward, one step back Author: J1spen1 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Saturday, February 08, 2025, 10:33: pm In reply to: Joyce 's message, "Re: Two steps forward, one step back" on Saturday, February 01, 2025, 09:08: pm Shelly, you have really tried your best in getting you sitter on a regimen. You fully understand that keeping her colon empty will give her the best chance of having regular bowels movements in the future and avoiding soiling. Maybe you need to let her fail for a while, and come to the conclusion that she needs your help. It probably won't take long for her to become very constipated,even impacted. Let her make the next step of having to plead with you for help. When that happens inform her that you will only help her if she agrees to whatever regimen you decide on for her treatment.And that the regimen will vary depending on her results and her cooperation. Inform her that she needs to fully agree to a 6 month regimen to start, with a possible added 6 months depending on her progress, to be souly determined by you. She needs to know that daily enemas will be used for at least the first 2 months. Positions,solutions,times, equipment, and number of rinse enemas souly determined by you. You should also routinely check her temperature rectally, and inform her that spankings will always be an option. I would be happy to discuss enema regimens with you anytime. I also hope your regular enemas for the boys are going well. Keeping up with these regular , scheduled enemas can be quite time consuming, but will be worth it in the long run. Hopefully the sitter will learn the importance of someone controlling her bottom also. For her, some of the issue is embarrassment, that feeling will never leave her, so don't try ignore that, acknowledge it and help her understand she is not alone. She will witness this more herself with the boys as they learn just how embarrassing being given enemas will be for them. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]