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Subject: Is it possible that I can be pregnant?

Author:
cm89

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Date Posted: 13:56:14 04/10/08 Thu

OK here's the deal. this is going to sound so stupid, but I need reassurance. My period last month came on march 6th and ended on march 12th, and then a few days after that my boyfriend and I messed around..but I just gave him a handjob/oral and he fingered me and gave me oral. me first, and then i did it to him. we had clothes on but just our pants were down, and never at the same time. but while i was giving him a hand job he was fingering me and i thought that maybe there was some possible way that i'm not sure of he could've got precum on his hands and then fingered me? I don't know if he did for sure or not..i remember him "adjusting" himself and then helping me get his pants down. sorry this is so graphic. but i'm wondering what the chances are?? AND i also got my period on april 4th..with signs leading up to it and major cramping the first day, but my flow was exceptionally lighter than it normally is. now its the 10th and im just spotting. So could stress of me thinking I could be pregnant some how mess up how my flow is?? and am I just being ridiculous? I guess i'm just over thinking things and i've been on websites that say its "unlikely" but possible..so i'm just thinking maybe i just got bad luck?? who knows..but I need another opinion please!!

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[> Subject: Re: Is it possible that I can be pregnant?

Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 20:27:42 04/10/08 Thu

Dear CM89,

Well, first, ANYTIME you are messing around/having sex, you can get pregnant.

However, if you had a period (even if it was light), that's considered a period, and you are most likely NOT pregnant. If you miss your next period, or have other symptoms, take a pregnancy test. You can get a FREE and CONFIDENTIAL test at a pregnancy center. Look one up near you at this site:

http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

Please remember, that if you keep messing around, odds are that you will end up pregnant. I think it's so much more important to have a healthy friendship, then marry before you have sex. It's really a healthier thing all the way around.

Kris

[> Subject: Re: Is it possible that I can be pregnant?

Author:
Heather
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Date Posted: 08:02:16 04/11/08 Fri

Cm89,

I agree with Kris. Another point I'd like to point out is that your period was 6 days long. Even though it was light that can't be considered "spotting". I, unfortunately, can't give a 100% one way or the other and I know that's what you're searching for. If you feel that you have to know NOW 100% take a test. Otherwise wait to see if you miss your next period.

Remember this feeling, fear of becoming pregnant with the next time you consider messing around. Is it worth it to go through this again, the stress, wondering??

Let us know how it turns out.

Hugs,

Heather