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Could I Be?

Author:
Ashley ((SCARED))

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Date Posted: 00:13:14 03/24/07 Sat

I Think i may be pregnant. and it deffinently is freaking me out..i was supposed to have my period a week ago..i cant afford a test right now..as i am only 16. my boyfriend and i have been having sex since my freshman year..i am not on any kind of birthcontrol.and we hardly ever use a condom, but he is careful to pull out. i know that this is a really risky behavior. but we have been lucky in the past about a million times. ovcourse i know this also has nothing to do w/this time. this last week i have felt sick and very tired, and my breasts have hurt like no other, i thout it might be cuz i should have started my period. but today my niples have enlarged so much, atleast twice normal size. my boyfriend and i had sext a couple times in the last month, unprotected. i know that this is my fault. but do you think ther is a chance that i may be overeacting and could possibly have another explanation about why my breasts have been this way in the last few days??? omg please help if you can...!! thanks!!

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[> Subject: Re: Could I Be?

Author:
Kris
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Date Posted: 11:11:43 03/24/07 Sat

Dear Ashley,

Call this toll free number - 1-800-395-HELP(4357) - they can direct you to a pregnancy center for a FREE and CONFIDENTIAL test. The ladies there are SUPER nice, and helpful and can give you advice as well.

You can also look up a center near you at this web site:

http://www.optionline.org/

Anytime you have sex - even if you had used a condom or some kind of b/c - you are at risk of getting pregnant. The ONLY 100% effective b/c is abstinence.

I think you should talk to your mom or dad - they will be upset of course, but that's because they love you. You need their support and you should NOT go through this alone - it is a VERY scary thing - I know, because I was there when I was 17 and I didn't want to tell my parents at all. I finally told my Stepmom - and she understood more than I thought she would.

Try not to freak out too much either - as stress and worry can and will make your period late.

Your breasts changing could be from you just changing - your body is always changing and at 16 you are developing more in to a woman.

Please take good care of yourself, eat right, do some walking in the fresh air - and talk to a trusted parent or friend. Most of all - call the number or find the pregnancy center near you and GO!

Hugs, Kris