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whats the odds

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julie (little happy little sad)

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Date Posted: 23:52:48 06/04/07 Mon

okay i just got with my bf witch ive known for years we just stated sleeping together i already have a 2 year old i want another child but he had me say at one time that i dididnt so i guess therefor we use the withdraw method my question is whats the precentage rate of a person getting pregnet that way i havent had sex in about 5 months prior its only been 5 days since the first time we slept together but my breast are tender could it just be my hormones from not having sex for so long or could i actually get pregnet that way i think i may have been ovulating and my ex sister in law says she got pregnet twice that way ive done it before and never became pregnet so whats the odds

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[> Subject: Re: whats the odds

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Kris
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Date Posted: 08:09:23 06/06/07 Wed

Dear Julie,

Anytime you have sex, you risk pregnancy. Even if you used b/c, there's still a chance you're pregnant. "Withdrawl" or "Pull out" are really NOT any method of b/c. The only 100% effective b/c is abstinence (not having sex).

You ask what the odds are that you're pregnant, and honestly, there are so many factors that it would not be responsible of anyone here to give you a percentage or something.

The only way you will find out is to wait until you miss your period and then take a good quality test. You can get FREE and CONFIDENTIAL tests at a pregnancy center.

Look one up near you at this site:

www.optionline.org

Will your boyfriend be mad if you are pregnant? You and he need to talk honestly about that possiblity and then either abstain until you are married and ready for more children.

There is a list of "top ten" pregnancy signs that I will re-post - and you can look those over - but a lot of those can be from other things too - so don't freak out thinking because you have one or two, you are pregnant.

Hope that helps.
Kris