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Subject: depressed

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ABID

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Date Posted: 09:37:36 12/26/02 Thu
Author Host/IP: ACB34228.ipt.aol.com/172.179.66.40

salam.this is a very private question and i would be gratefull if you would not print this on your notice board,i would like a reply by email please.
i am very depressed 33 yr old muslim man,im single and still living at home. my parents and myself are trying to find me a muslim lady for marriage, however i am very depressed and try to pray as much as i can.i would like to know if it is permissable to pray in a room where it is not very clean.i mean it may look clean to sumone who enters it but things have been done in that room that only the occupier knows about.they ere sinfull things and the person is trying to stop ( but he is not trying very hard, but he wants to stop the sinfull things b4 they get out og hand)
he doesnt want to pray in the rest of the house where there are other people, he would prefer to prat in his own room.can he make his room pure somehow so that he can carry out his prayers? please can you help as he is very depressed and he only has internet muslim friends to talk to and he doesnt like to cum on internet too much as he tends to stay here for a long time, many hours each day.he is having councilling but it not realy helping him.his family do not know of the problems he is facing and he doesnt want to tell them becuase they have there own problems to worry about.
he wants to get married as sson as possible as he realy needs a wife.he and his family have money problems and he is very worried and depressed.he wonders if he will ever get married, he is now 33.he sumtimes cries at nite when alone behind closed doors and he tried to ask allah to help him.he doesnt want to be alone.he is trying to keep busy in spare time by reading islamic articles and studying.please could you reply as soon as possible as he realy needs advice and help.
thankyou for your help.
salam
Abid

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