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Subject: Re: hello

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luka

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Date Posted: 08/26/06 8:46pm
In reply to: Sharon 's message, "Re: hello" on 08/26/06 11:24am

Thanks Sharon. I Guess my concern is that as a single mother i can only do so much. I'm not sure when or even IF i will ever get the courage to trust another man again and certainly don't want to get into a relationship soley for the purpose of having a male figure around my son. I just feel that boys who grow up without fathers and especially even partly around a father who doesn't respect women and who really doesn't respect his mother, will grow up to be the same :( ( i don't have much at all in the way of family or friends either).
I have to admit i am having a bit of a down day today. I am very busy ect. but somehow manage to be able to feel lonely still. I am angry at myself for not snapping out of it. I still feel so hurt and abandoned by my babys father. I can't believe he doesn't car in the slightest (well i can) but it's just so hard to come to terms with. For YEARS i believed differently. And even though i do not wish to get back together with him. It's excrutiating at times to feel the absence of remorse on his part. HE just doesn't care at all. I don't figure in any of this. He's just going to have a son and i'm just going to have to carry on alone with another child. It's like he gets out of any responsibilty he doesn't even have to feel sorry for any of it. It's like he has no conscience. I wish i could feel better. I'm guessing i will at some point. I would like to get there quicker somehow. My hurt doesn't solve anything. I just feel sad sometimes because the situation with him is just so futile.

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