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Subject: Re: Going Crazy

Author:
Antonella (I can believe it!)

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Date Posted: 01/21/09 1:25pm
In reply to: Antonella 's message, "Re: Going Crazy" on 01/12/09 5:35am

Hi Leah, I can believe his reaction...he is a MAN-not a WOMAN so he can't understand how we feel , I mean, having our baby growing up inside our body! and he can be cold/ distant if he feels kept outside- after all he wasn't informed about it before your choice. So just take it easy! A baby needs both u2, let him take HIS time to realize it and be positive, God helps you in any case ;) so try to be kind and involve him in your feelings-it's a good idea to go to tests together and let him know everything-all info- even if he says he isn't ready, and so on.. You know what? I am married since 1 year and if I get pregnant now my hubby would like to RUN away just because he doesn't feel ready (...and then he would be back...)- he needs time and I know it, we both planned kids in our future- well, so..congratulations!!!Love ya, Antonella

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Author:
Leah
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Date Posted: 02/ 8/09 6:26pm

Just to send you ladies an update I found out I am having a little BOY! I am over the moon about this!!!!!! So amazing and awesome and just the best thing that could happen to me!!!! I was looking at some of my previous posts and it has been such a journey....and it's not even close to being over yet.

I was watching the Johnny Cash video(again)that Shellie posted and I was struck by the last words in the song "If I could start again,a million miles away,I would keep myself,I would find a way" We all have to remember to keep ourselves....that there is a way.

Well just thought I would post a bit of an update for you ladies. How is everyone doing these days? Hope all is going well.Please keep thinking good things for me,I still need all the postive things I can get thanks so much,and I will do the same for everyone else.

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Author: Sharon [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 02/12/09 11:02am That is AWESOME! Congratulations! I'll post more when I have a minute, but I wanted to let you know how happy I am for you! Sharon

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Author: Melanie [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 02/12/09 12:36pm Leah, that is indeed wonderful news! :) I am very excited for you. Have you picked out a name yet? I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and prayers. --Melanie

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Author: Tracey [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 02/12/09 1:13pm Leah~ YAY!!! A BOY!!!! CONGRATS!!! I am rejoicing with you!!! Please continue to post!!! God bless, Tracey

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Author: Pat [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 02/12/09 1:33pm Leah, Your post makes me cry tears of joy! Congratulations, Mom! Apparently no one saw your message until today, so apologies for a late reply. Come back and let us know how you are doing. We love you both. Hugs, Pat

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Leah
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Date Posted: 03/17/09 11:30pm

Miracles do happen,without getting into much detail,something wonderful (aside from the baby) has happened. Things are kind of scary right now,but I am prayimg that everything will be alright. Also this babies dad is finally coming around....I am so happy about this,I alnost did something so dumb....I am so happy I didn't. I wish I could post more but it's kinda TMI for a public forum.....i just wanted to say thank-you to the ladies who have been there for me from the beginning. Please keep praying for me,my baby,his dad,and our families we are all gonna need it this next little bit. So happy right now I could cry,but also nervous :)

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Author: Heather [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 03/22/09 2:58pm Hi Leah, It's great to read an update from you, even if vague. :) Good news is good news, and I'm happy for you. How's your pregnancy progressing? I'll keep you, your baby, his dad and your families in prayer. Blessings, Heather

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Author:
Pat
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Date Posted: 03/22/09 7:54pm

Leah,

Thanks so much for your update! I rejoice with you on the other good events in your life.

Just remember, courage isn't about not being afraid. Courage is doing what you need to do in spite of your fear. I pray that God will take away your fear. Get some good nutrition. Read the message I left to Tracy and see if any of this applies to you as well.

We will be delighted to hear from you as life goes on. Take very good care of yourself and your little one.

Hugs,
Pat