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Pat
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Date Posted: 11/12/07 8:46pm
In reply to:
Kris
's message, "Re: Confused , upset , disappointed" on 11/11/07 5:20pm
Hi, Kris,
Let me ask you a difficult question. Your boyfriend abandoned both of you. What I hear you saying is that you feel because of this, you have to abandon your baby. Why would your boyfriend's actions suggest to you that you should abandon your baby? Your baby is depending on you for your protection. He or she isn't to blame for your boyfriend's actions. Your boyfriend is to blame, and it doesn't make sense to hurt your baby because of what he did, and I think deep inside you realize this. Please protect your baby.
I imagine you are facing difficulties, and that you don't feel you can take care of your baby alone. Actually, there are many agencies out there to help you. You can find a list of them here: www.pregnancycenters.org
There you can find lists, and locate one in your area.
It's normal to be scared. In fact, the hormones of early pregnancy aggravate this problem. We women are pregnant nine months for a reason. It is so we can be prepared for motherhood. The crisis pregnancy agency will help you, and we will be here for you. By the time your baby is born, you will be ready to mother your child.
You already don't want to have an abortion. If you don't want an abortion, don't have one! There are better answers. But given what you have told us, if you have an abortion, it will haunt you for the rest of your life!
We'll be here for you.
Hugs,
Pat
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