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Re: Having an abortion tomorrow

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Melanie

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Date Posted: 10/11/07 2:52pm
In reply to: Alison 's message, "Having an abortion tomorrow" on 10/11/07 12:06pm

First of all, congratulations for listening and taking action. I know that couldn't have been real easy for you.

I know that no matter which direction you go, things will not be easy. However, you do still have a choice, even if the circumstances make it seem otherwise. I won't lie, the molest issue makes it tougher, but you are not totally without options, and you are assuming the worst-case scenario. Fighting for custody is not inexpensive. You can apply for restraining orders, demand supervised visitation if it is demanded, etc.

As for having an abortion, you have already said it is something you do not want. And having an abortion after 12 weeks is a bit riskier and more involved. If it is something you really don't want, you do not have to go through with it. There are usually other options.

If you do have a change of mind on this, please let me know and I will see what sort of help is available in your state. Just e-mail me.

My heart goes out to you either way. You are in a difficult situation. I hope that we can find a way to help you make a good decision that you can live with.

--Melanie

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Author: nicole (:() [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 10/15/07 12:11pm its whatever you choose.. i had an abortion and i cry everyday and night about it... it was the worst experience of my life i would have been due november 16,2007. my little angels are watching upon me...DON'T FEEL PRESSURED BUT PLEASE DO NOT DO IT FOR ANYONE ELSE!