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Re: just found out i'm pregnant don't know what to do

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Donna

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Date Posted: 02/ 7/07 6:42am
In reply to: monica 's message, "just found out i'm pregnant don't know what to do" on 02/ 5/07 12:27pm

Hi Monica,
Welcome to our little support board. Here you will find unconditional support. I can sense that you are very surprised by this pregnancy. My heart goes out to you as you struggle with emotion. Today is the 7th so you have had your ultra sound by now. My prayer is that yesterday was a turning point for you. That your little one truely became real to you and your feelings have completely changed. Like some of the other ladies stated, if we wait for the absolute perfect moment in our lives to have our children, most of us would be childless right now. God blesses us with our babies and therefore he will supply the needs. I think in today's society we..ourselves...place so much pressure on ourselves to provide our chidren with their wants. Children aren't born with those desires, the most important thing in a childs life is to have someone to love them and to fill them with the sense of security. I am a bargain maniac..you can have things for your baby without spending alot of money. You would be surprised at the beautiful childrens clothing in a consignment shop..ebay has alot to offer in this area..I've gotten so many things from there for less than 3.00..and they were beautiful items. I bet that your circle of friends would celebrate with you and host a baby shower for you.
I am soo afraid that if you choose to abort your little baby you will be regretful and there is nothing you can do once you cross that line but to endure the regret.
Words cannot express how I would feel to be able to have a baby right now. We've been praying to adopt for several years now. Think of placing that option on your list as well. I know that there are thousands of families just like ours praying for a miracle. Adoption plans are made from the deepest of Loves.
I think you will find most comfort from the other ladies experiencing an unplanned pregnancy themselves. We, the ladies from Voy, care so much for all of you. We are here with open arms and hearts to listen and we will try our best to help you sort out your feelings. For most of us, we have experienced mommyhood so we truely know first hand the miracle of pregnancy, giving birth, and experiencing the many many joyous wonders that come in watching our children grow. My prayer is that you will allow yourself to experience this too. The first time you see your child, The first hugs, the first I love you's the first smiles will melt your heart into a thousand pieces and it's at that moment that you will definetly know that you would walk thru fire to protect your child.
Please update us when you can okay?
Donna

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