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Subject: Re: New Here...Feeling Alone and Scared

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Pat

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Date Posted: 06/21/07 12:12am
In reply to: Laurel 's message, "New Here...Feeling Alone and Scared" on 06/19/07 10:43pm

Hi, Laurel! I am VERY glad you came!

I get the impression that bipolar problems surface when things get really tough and a person can't cope anymore. I have had some indirect experience with this.

You are bonded to your baby's father because you had sex with him. This arouses emotions in a woman that come from hormones from the activity. It is normal and natural for you to want your baby's father to be there and be a good father. It is likewise normal and natural for you to want to be a family.

Please go to a crisis pregnancy agency and get some counseling, and some help with your material needs. You are entitled to experience joy in your baby, and the current circumstances are robbing you of that joy.

Other than that, be patient. Try not to get too emotionally involved with the father. If he wants to shop with you, I agree I don't see any harm in it, but be careful because if he swings the other way, it can drag you down. Be prepared to distance yourself from him when this happens, for the sake of both of you. Encourage him to seek help.

We will be here for you!

Hugs,
Pat

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Laurel
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Date Posted: 06/28/07 9:59pm

Just wanted to drop a quick note and say a big THANKS to everyone for their support! It does give me an added piece of mind to hear helpful words coming from you guys. Things are going pretty well, my Medicaid is in place any my step mom is talking about throwing me a baby shower. Just wanted to say thanks again, I'm kind of short on time right now...everybody take care and hang in there...
Laurel