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Date Posted: 16:34:12 06/25/00 Sun
Author: Jane
Subject: woo hoo!!! you go girl!!!
In reply to: Steph 's message, "What have you done to feel sexy?" on 21:20:52 06/24/00 Sat

the first thing i did, when i was only about 19 (18 years ago--ouch!!!) was to decide that i WOULD dress becomingly. "if i'm gonna be a blob, i'm gonna be a colorful blob!!!" (sad now to think i ever described myself like that--wow) i decided at the time to stop the incessant pursuit of THIN for awhile and i became more socially active. before i knew it, i was happier than i'd ever been. i went to dances with my young adult church group and had a BLAST!!!! it was all just friends, but it was pretty good for my ego to go from asking all the guys to dance, to nights where i NEVER had to ask, and would even be asked by 2 at once sometimes!!!

i learned to flirt, too, and have become more and more outgoing about it over the years. ;-) i used to feel like no one would want me so why try??? but in the past several years, i've increasingly come out of myself in that regard. it's a pretty good feeling to realize that even when you're 300+ pounds, A LOT of men like to be flirted with. i weigh 275ish right now, and i feel like i'm giving off 275 pounds of sexual energy these days!!! my pheromones must be a veritible fireworks display!!!

singing at a restaurant helped my confidence a lot, too. i learned to stand up in front of people and LOOK confident and happy regardless of how i felt. one man called me over to his table and told me that he'd been so impressed, not only with my voice, but with my "beauty". another man told me that i had the "most beautiful smile [he] had ever seen."

i've also had some very nice, complimentary married friends. one man told me that i "exude femininity".... these compliments don't suck, let me tell you!!!

now if i could just find a man who is SINGLE, who feels that way, and who i actually can stay interested in for more than 3 minutes..... HEY!!!! I'LL GET SOME ACTION!!!!! ;-)

Jane

ps-great topic, Steph!!!

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