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Date Posted: 08:50:09 11/12/04 Fri
Author: Jenny
Subject: Re: My precious daughter, Sam
In reply to: joyce sullivan 's message, "My precious daughter, Sam" on 21:35:31 08/13/04 Fri

>I lost my precious daughter Samantha in a tragic car
>wreck on November5,2000. The day before her 16th
>birthday. My heart is broken and will never be
>healed.Even though it will soon be four years,to me it
>happened minutes ago. People say I need to go on with
>my life,that I have three other daughters that need
>me.I know the last part is true,but these people have
>never lost a child.It's so hard to move on,my heart
>and my mind is still back there that night,November
>5,2000. I need a lot of prayers,and I need to be able
>to freely talk about my little Sammy Jo and about what
>happened.But most people avoid talking about her for
>fear of upsetting me.But I need to talk about her!
>Ilove and miss her so----much!

Joyce,

I too lost my 19 year old daughter Brandy, August 21, 1999. All of our family was there for comfort and telling us that we will be fine. People telling us that we will get over this. NO WAY!!!!!!!!! Brandy is our only daughter and oldest of 3 children. Her brothers were close to her. Yes, it does help to talk about her. Some people, I feel, don't want me to talk about her. I'm not sure why. I get the feeling that when I do talk about her, they don't want to listen, and I am thinking, 'they don't want to hear me because they are probably thinking, she is gone, get over it'. They just don't understand, and hopefully never will. I don't have the answers, but people who have not lost an older child, does not know the pain. I am very sorry for your loss. Believe me, you do have to go on and take care of your family, but the pain will never go away. It has been 5 years for us and I cry every day.

Thanks for listening and I hope you feel better soon. Jenny Rogers

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Re: My precious daughter, Sam -- LaDonna, 21:53:23 12/17/04 Fri