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Date Posted: 23:22:58 03/04/02 Mon
Author: Linda
Subject: Re: Days of Wonder
In reply to: James Roberts 's message, "Days of Wonder" on 18:58:37 03/04/02 Mon

Hi James,

More problems with this particular server, too, I'm afraid. I'm going to post an URL to a better message board, which isn't so annoying and which informs me by email whenever there is a posting. I'll give it to you after my reply.

Things will be better now that they are less serious James. It's good that you had that discussion, even if Candice was a little bit brusque. The secret here really is to relax. That is so important. The relationship is still so new and Rome wasn't built in a day. Nobody can expect an unconditional, exclusively focused interrelationship when it is such early days. You may have been ready for something like this but Candice wasn't. Try to take on board the points that she put over and wait for something more intense to grow. She is not a home-body is she? By that I mean that she has a lot of different activities and projects on the go and isn't content to have a relationship as the main focus of her life, staying at home to wash her hair and watch telly being her only other occupations. She is a busy and active lass and will be all the more interesting for this.

Try to ease the pressure for a committed and exclusive relationship off as much as you can. Once she feels 'released', she will feel much more inclined to get closer to you in good time. Try to see the bond that you share a little like a cord wrapped around your waists. If you try to stay too close to her all the time, that cord will not have any tension in it. If, however, you take some steps backward, then the cord will tense, pulling her that bit closer to you. Human relationships thrive on that kind of tension. If someone gets too close, then both parties begin to trip over that loose, useless piece of cord. Pull it taught and see what happens.

The new message board URL is going to be http://pluto.beseen.com/boardroom/p/59224/. In fact, once I've replied to the other peoples' postings, the new board will be 'up'.

Take care.

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