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Date Posted: 18:58:37 03/04/02 Mon
Author: James Roberts
Subject: Days of Wonder

Ok, im little annoyed.
This is the third time i've sent this, there is annoying check part where you have to approve the post, you should warn us of that.
here I go, last time.

Ok.
I left a message last time before your site knackered.
I'll brief on that.
Geez, im tired of writing this story.

sod that, i cant be bothered.

We just talked, she was unhappy when i said that i thought she was more important to me than i her.


We had a more serious chat on the phone, very serious.

She said she felt pressurised by me to spend time with her.
Had a lot of work recently, that her friends are real important to her too.
I told her all i wanted to say about not feeling good enough.
We sorted out a lot, but she said she didnt want to take things so serious, she thought i was taking things too fast.
She aint used to relationships. Wanted us to be more relaxed couple, get used to me first.
She said, if i was looking for such intense devotion that she maybe wasnt the girl for me.
We sorted out that I was going to be less pressuring.
She was real harsh on the phone, i was shocked, i thought she was going to end it.
But, we talked for ages.
In a way though, she's backed up my comment that she was more important to me.
She comes first in my life i come about fourth in hers, behind school and friends.
well.
So, i suppose a lot was sorted.
Was I taking things too fast? how do i slow down?
I was trying to establish a relationship first, so i insisted on time spending together, are things at risk?
I never actually said things that pressurised more indicated through the look, (she says), i cant help wanting to be with her. What happens here?
What are you thoughts? Now things are less serious, it will be easier, will it? What must i do and avoid doing, particularly what i was before?
thanks

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