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Date Posted: 04:18:59 06/04/02 Tue
Author: SoSorry
Subject: Re: People think I'm a slut.
In reply to: Rachel 's message, "People think I'm a slut." on 15:45:59 05/29/02 Wed

Obviously, the young man who posted a reply is the type of person you were ruining your reputation with. However,
don't despair. Remember, everyday when you wake up, you can start over. What is done is done. Go on. People can think anything theylike, but over time, you will prove them wrong. I am more concerned as to why you were acting out in this way. I use to do it because I needed to be validated as a woman and needed the affection that I thought was part of the act. You must learn to trust yourself for your emotional care and learn to keep yourself from relying on others to make you feel whole. Find and read the book "Women Who Love Too Much" and "Men Who Hate
Women and the Women Who Love Them". They are real eye openers. It will help you understand why you were so easy.
You need to find support for your new behavior too! Find a group of teens who are trying to do the right thing. I don't mean be celebate, but please chose carefully your parttners ! Good luck. And I promise, if you walk tall
and act as if you are not ashamed of your past (because you know you were learning) not one person will challenge your new outlook. If they ask too many questions, tell them
you are not willing to talk about it.

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