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Date Posted: 11:09:34 04/25/16 Mon
Author: Susan
Subject: Re: Who are you and where did the person I know go????
In reply to: Doug 's message, "Who are you and where did the person I know go????" on 07:12:16 04/25/16 Mon

Thank you for sharing Doug. This message BROKE MY HEART. Was your son ok? I hope he enjoyed his day despite the drama. I've always believed that angry and hateful people feel this way about themselves, but simply take it out on others. It may be that your ex-wife buried her same-sex attraction for so long that it was like she forget about it. Or perhaps it was something that just laid dormant. But when THE GAY THING comes to the surface, it can be like an infected wound. My only hope is that she eventually finds enough inner peace to play a more positive role in your son's life. But until then, PROTECT YOURSELF AND MANAGE YOUR EXPECATIONS. In my experience, during the early stage of self-acceptance, she'll probably act like a radioactive teenager. I'd recommend minimal contact, be there for your son, and try to avoid making common plans together. Both you and your son deserve drama-free time together. You only need to include mom when she's on a more even emotional keel. Good luck!

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Re: Who are you and where did the person I know go???? -- Doug ( to Susan), 07:55:33 04/26/16 Tue